We go to school together and he is the most adorable thing you'll ever meet. Always doing the cutest little things for me. But a few days ago he just got a new girlfriend. Am I supposed to be offended? He still does those little things and I'm starting to feel like I'm just his piece of the side when his girl isnt there. Should I just tell him to back off and let me move on or try to get him back? UGH!! I'm so confused =[
2006-12-28 05:42:31 · 15 answers · asked by mel4o 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he doesn't mean to treat you like a girlfriend, maybe he just sees you as a good female friend, kind of like a sister...
2006-12-28 05:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not be offended and let him continue the little things. He sounds like a nice guy who is sweet and does nice things for lots of people. I would be the type to keep him as a friend. Do not try to get him back. Actually you never had him in the first place. He was just being a nice guy. He actually has no clue that you like him. You tell him that and he will stare at you clueless. High school guys are always a little clueless. Do not tell him anything. Let his relationship with grilfriend be. You are not a peice of side and never were. You watch he probably does nice thing for others as well. If your into the dating scene look for someone else to be your boyfriend but do not shove that in his face, ect.
He sounds like a nice guy...be his friend and leave it at that.
2006-12-28 13:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by ursula_higgs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are sooo nice, that its hard to tell whether they're flirting with you or not. This guy sounds like that. Maybe he was just being friendly? Either way don't ever settle for being his little piece on the side, if you feel like that, then its best to seperate from him...
2006-12-28 13:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to back off girlfriend! dont let a man treat you like that. He is just using you when his other girl isnt around so no matter what hes seen with a girl and gets some kind of flirt or other "matter" out of it. Go with my advice.
2006-12-28 13:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ever give him reason not to have a gf? Just because the guy is cute doesn't mean you own him.
Did he ever ask you out? Sounds like you have a crush.
It happesn to me all the time, women falling at my feet. Of course that's after they're wounded...
2006-12-28 13:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally hate when guys do te sweet things for other girls when they have girlfriends. I would move one. let's say you two go out later on, will he do those nice sweet things to other girls like he is doing now to you now.
2006-12-28 13:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by Meg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is in a relationship then he needs to leave you alone. he cant have both. dont be a doormat and let him walk all over you. you are better than that. i say you back off. just leave him alone and dont accept any gifts from him. when you act uninterested, they come running back. trust me honey. :)
2006-12-28 13:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its not to fun being the Back Up, trust me, especially when you care for the person. Tell him how u feel.
2006-12-28 14:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by hieroglyphical15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should continue to let him do things for you and when he breaks up with his girl you make a move on him
2006-12-28 13:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by Dw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably just a good guy and wants to make you happy, or he likes you and wants to make you jealous by getting a new GF to make u want him more =P ( thats waht i think if i were you i would start paying more attention to him )
Cheers =D
2006-12-28 13:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋