everything was going fine.. until my friend started sending him text message and since that first time texting him they talk to each other almost everday.. she is married and tells me that she is not interested in him. but they are still talking to each other and even knows more info about him then me.. should i ask him whats going on or just leave them two alone? im confused.
2006-12-28 05:38:07 · 15 answers · asked by karmin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't get in a "triangle". Leave them alone.
2006-12-28 05:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ivar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how they act when talking to each other. If it seems kinda flirty then you might want to ask him about it, but otherwise, don't worry about it. Trust your friend and be confident that the guy is interested in you. Give him the benefit of the doubt. Just because your friend is texting him doesn't mean that she is interested in him like that. She may just think he's a cool guy and likes talking to him and that is perfectly fine. No harm, no foul. Besides, if she's married, there should be no reason to worry.
2006-12-28 13:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by aneps_grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ick. You need to talk to your friend about this, I mean she's married and I'm sure that she knows you like this guy! So if she's doing this on purpose, than I'd just leave them alone because one guy isn't worth all that mess. But if your friend didn't know maybe you tell her and she will back off a little and that way things will be fine.
2006-12-28 13:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, call a horse a horse. It's already an odd scenario that she's texting him all the time. How well do you know this girl? Is she content in her marriage? Sounds to me like he found a friend with benefits.
2006-12-28 13:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by oceanblue_007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely ask whats going on. your friend has almost no business talking to a guy you are interested in - ESPECIALLY because she is married! she should let you have your good times with him. talk to her too. tell her gently that you think she is monopolizing YOUR time with YOUR boyfriend. don't just stand on the sidlines watching as they text themselves into a complicated relationship.
2006-12-28 13:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by skigrrl66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she is not a true friend...he is not worth it.If she's married then this in a way is called cheating.Just don't bother there a lot more guys around that you can meet and I can tell you their are better and worth it.
2006-12-28 13:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by juanita77008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm seems like she is looking for some
strange.....ditch the guy keep the friend. He isn't worth the space he takes up......why hate the friend she did you a favor!! She will get hers in the end I am sure.
2006-12-28 13:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by ~♥Aimee♥~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your friend needs to knock it off. its weird that she talks to him when she knows that you are interested him. she is married too! you need to talk to her first, tell her that it bothers you. if she is your friend she wouldnt be sneaking around your back. why did she text him in the first place?
2006-12-28 13:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave them alone and get a new friend, that one sucks
2006-12-28 13:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her whats going on and as she is married ask her to please back off as you like him
2006-12-28 13:47:47 · answer #10 · answered by Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋