when were together we never fight but when we get home and get on the phone all we do is fight ? how can i stop fighting with him? please someone help?
2006-12-28 05:25:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Communicate face to face, instead of over the phone line, some people communicate better visually, they have to see expressions, hands moving, look in your eyes and so forth for positive feedback. Especially if you talk on phone more then you talk in person. Feeling and emotions just don't seem sincere, to much rom for assumption (assuming things ) etc.
2006-12-28 05:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by VALENTINO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have the same problem with one of my ex's!!! Just minimize the amount of times yall talk on the phone!! the more you are together the more prone to fighting you become. And if not whenever one gets upset you be like: ok i'm getting a little upset so let me just call you back after i have relaxed. or something of that sort
2006-12-28 13:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by cHiKiBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I need more details, since I am in a similar situation. What do you fight about? Do the same fights repeat themselves? How do they start? Can you do anything differently to prevent them? What's different between you guys in person than on the phone? ADD DETAILS
2006-12-28 13:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by THICKUMS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking on the phone. My boyfriend and I aren't big on phone conversations and our relationship works out just fine. And maybe you should look at the things you guys argue about because I bet 9 times out of 10 it's something petty that either one of you can just over look!
2006-12-28 13:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by fandmx1224 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and think what conversation always takes you to a fight. Figure out a way to stop arguing.
2006-12-28 13:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by juanita77008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. You say what you fight about, but if all you do is fight on the phone, it's time to move on.
2006-12-28 13:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe try to stay off topics you know you are going to fight about over the phone. maybe you feel less venerable on the phone since you don't have direct contact. try to communicate more and reassure each other that you aren't doing anything they would disapprove of
2006-12-28 13:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by linkielock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to let the lil things go. Dont sweat the small stuff. If he catches attitude do not react to it. This saves a lot of fighting.
2006-12-28 13:28:07 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Crickett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking on the phone!
2006-12-28 13:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you fight over frivolous things or serious things? If it doesn't matter just let it go. Just pretend he is right. I mean, is it worth all the yelling and screaming?
2006-12-28 13:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by Meg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋