Say a girl walks into a club or bar. She is wearing a very short mini skirt, no undies, and has a revealing top that shows off her fake breasts. Then she complains that guys are staring at her. Well , what does she think is going to happen dressing that way?
Why complain?
Discuss.
2006-12-28 05:21:33 · 34 answers · asked by stephenryanpresents 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
It is all an act with her. She just thinks she is playing the nice modest girl, when she knows she is not.
2006-12-28 05:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by Shossi 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I have seen women that dress sexy and women that dress cheap.I think that a woman that dresses sexy and can carry herself well will get alot of compliments even from other women as well.A woman that dresses cheap,wears too much makeup,is going to attract negative attention.It's usually those that complain.I feel that there isn't anything wrong with dressing sexy with some class.
2006-12-28 06:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one of the best questions i have ever seen here!
you know, it just does not make sense, does it? i wonder how young such girls are. no mature woman would object to being looked at in a desirous way by a man if she dresses the way a man loves to see her. (not all of those revealing necklines, btw, are false...)
i noticed some years back, on latino television shows, that the women dress so sexually. it is sort of expected in that culture, and why, i don't know. you'd think not since the culture is so tied into the catholic church!
in our puritanical and old fashioned culture, a lady is just not to be dressed that way unless she is in the bedroom with her husband or boyfriend. or, if he asks her to dress that way for him when he takes her to dinner, because it is to be for HIM and not anyone else.
another thing that irritates me, as a woman, and probably confuses you as a man is that when you act like a gentleman, lighting a strange woman's cigs, holding open doors, she sometimes scowls at you. or worse, when you compliment her on her manner of dressing (in the office), you can be charged with sexual harrassment! how ridiculous! it is almost like just another means to start a senseless lawsuit that clogs up our courts. i see nothing wrong with saying that she looks nice, do you? you are not grabbing her! all you do is compliment her. what is wrong with WORDS?
again, it reminds me of wives that get jealous simply because their husbands LOOK at some woman. i'd tell my husband to look as much as he wished, just do not touch. it was easy. and, he did not touch. neither one of us touched. i suppose that is why our divorce after such a LT marriage was smooth: no adultery on either side. that hurts a lot.
additionally, this reminds me of the crude way that many men "chat" with a strange woman, i.e., me. i never met them, but they think i want to talk about sex online or else even ask me to watch them (doing you know what) on their cams. the nerve!
however, i don't know how you heard the women complain. they must be very immature. just a way to be a bi*ch, i guess. what is the point???
2006-12-28 05:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by Louiegirl_Chicago 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They know what they're doing. They want the attention or they wouldn't dress that way. I don't like it. It tells me you have issues if you have to show all your body parts. If you want to get respect start dressing with respect. You can show off a nice body wearing the right clothes.
2006-12-28 06:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She only wants to be noticed by the hot guy with the expensive car, not all the normal guys that are attracted to the hot skank. By the end of the night when she has not hooked up because she has an irritating voice and no personality, she will crave the attention.
2006-12-28 06:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
SOME WOMEN JUST CRAVE ATTENTION THEN ACT LIKE THEY DON'T WANT IT! IF YOU DON'T WANT IT DON'T ACT LIKE A SLUT...IT'S COOL IF YOU DO ,JUST DON'T COMPLAIN WHEN YOU GET THE ATTENTION YOU WANT!!! AND MOST WOMEN WILL GET THAT KIND OF ATTENTION EVEN IF SHE IS DRESSED ALL "COVERED UP" SO WHY ASK FOR WHAT YOU CLAIM YOU DON'T WANT?
AND TO THE MEN... YOU CAN GIVE A COMPLIMENT WITHOUT BEING RUDE&CRUDE!!! PLEASE REMEMBER THAT!
AND YES, I DO LOOK AT MEN!!! SO WHAT!
2006-12-28 11:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think we are really complaining. I only act that way with the men I am not interested in to drive them away.
2006-12-28 06:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm not too bothered about her: I'm more worried about my wife who is standing next to me. I cannot help looking, even for a short time. But I know my wife will notice. Now, HOW do I explain to her (my wife) that I REALLY wasn't interested?!
2006-12-28 06:13:21 · answer #8 · answered by flandargo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's all an act, the girl wants attention in the first place.
2006-12-28 05:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by jennie r 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Friend, you can ask 'why' women do things till you're out of breath, but you will never get a satisfactory answer. They don't even know why they do the things they do.
2006-12-28 15:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by m. b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋