I really like this guy, we sometimes hang out but most of our communicating is done over the internet due to distance. What are ways to win his heart?
2006-12-28 05:08:17 · 18 answers · asked by Bo B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every unmarried man has a secret need that he is afraid to talk about and ask others to fulfil. And this need is the need for friendly physical contact and affection.
Men in english-speaking cultures almost never touch each other in affectionate ways. And a typical unmarried man often goes for weeks and even months without any such contact with another human being. This is a kind of sensory deprivation because people are social beings and not having any affectionate physical contact with others is unnatural.
I think you have a good chance of winning the guy's heart, if you fulfill this secret need of his that neither he nor anyone else ever talks about.
It doesn't have to be sexual touching, although it can end up being this way. But if you go out of your way to pat him on the back, touch his arm, and give him a friendly hug whenever the oppportunity presents itself, then very likely he will fall for you because probably no other woman has every been this good to him, except his mother. And a woman who is in some way like the guy's mother is often the woman he chooses to marry.
2006-12-28 05:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys already hang out when you can then it sounds like your already winning him over. especially if he is willing to travel to see you it shows that there is interest there. i say just keep being yourself and allow things to happen naturally. don't force it and what is meant to be will happen. also it is my experience that people are more willing to open up on-line and share things they may not otherwise disclose so don't down play the Internet chat its a great way to learn about someone with out having to adjust your schedule- good luck hope this helps!
2006-12-28 05:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by snobunnie2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't win someone...you either have a connection or you don't and what you see is what you get, don't expect to change someone - it ain't happenin'! Don't try to force something, it could end up putting you in a relationship that you find out you really don't want to be in and don't try to change yourself...be yourself. If you do, you will end up regretting it. They best way to be happy is to be yourself and be with someone who accepts who you are, for you, not what you pretend (or they pretend) to be.
2006-12-28 05:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by Peachz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant win someone over unless something "unexpected" happens... but do your best and if he still doesnt like you then move on, there are plenty of guys out there!
2006-12-28 05:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be youself, but if yourself is lazy can't cook dinner, can't easy, can not be funny cannot permit him to calm down and let him play laptop games, are not able to supply him sex then forget it.
2016-08-10 04:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uummm... be yourself. You don't want a guy to fall for someone that you're not. Just be yourself, don't go out of your way to try to impress him.
2006-12-28 05:14:29 · answer #6 · answered by groovy_momma2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him partially nude pics of your self but cut your face out for general purposes and I'll bet he'll start planning a trip to see you.
2006-12-28 05:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
be youself, yet whilst your self is lazy can not prepare dinner, can not sparkling, won't be able to be humorous can not enable him to loosen up and enable him play laptop video games, can not supply him intercourse then ignore it.
2016-10-06 03:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by wichern 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can speak about yourself with this guy because she will find out your manner,and then she will become interested in you!!
2006-12-28 05:18:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, through his chest.
Seriously, become friends. And let it progress from there. It can't be rushed. Trust me
2006-12-28 05:24:49 · answer #10 · answered by Sarab s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋