2006-12-28 04:41:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
say that u just don't love him the way he needs as a girlfriend, and that u have to let each other go to find someone that will love him Fully, and you can learn to love Fully. say u can't Force Love, and that u both tried hard and it's just not there for you. but he is a wonderful, great guy and he will be really great boyfriend for someone out there, and he deserves to be loved back the same way as he loves you. good luck.. try not to make him feel as tho he's not good enough.. more than u can't Force love and that u both are good people, but it's just not there.
2006-12-28 04:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about: "I think you're a great person and fun to be around but I just don't share the feelings for you that you have for me. At this point I want to move on with my life and I think you should do the same. The best thing for both of us right now would be to just stop seeing each other."
Avoid the "we can still be friends" line because if he still loves you that can never happen and it will only be a drag on the relationship for both of you. Good luck!
2006-12-28 04:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by Johann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While breaking up is hard to do, it is the right thing to do if you no longer feel the same about the guy. It wouldn't be fair to him if you weren't honest. Remember, though, being honest does not have to be mean and cruel. Also remember if the guy were breaking up with you ,how you would feel ! Be "gentle" and respectful and be sensitive to his feelings but be firm if he tries to change your mind...you could always "leave the door open" if you find you would like to return to the relationship later, by saying that you need to date other people to see how you really feel.
2006-12-28 04:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by ConcernedMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't come right out and just say it. Go to dinner with him, start talking about the future (long-term), and specify what you're looking for from life. Get a good deep conversation going and you'll find a way to bring up your feelings (or lack thereof). There is no straight answer on what exactly to say... you just have to find a way that doesn't seem selfish.
2006-12-28 04:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by Not a punk like you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, it might be cool for you to look in your Heart and ask yourself what inspired you to love him in the first place? Check within yourself to see if what you don't like outweighs what you do like about him. Then, if you still find you don't have love for him anymore, take time to talk to him alone, ask why does he love about you? Then if you're not feelin' him, be cool, and try to let him know that you want be friends as nice as possible..Remember, he can really get hurt easily because of his love for you. Best Wishes.
2006-12-28 04:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by Justcool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply tell him that you two are no longer a good match, and wish him well in the future. If you want to, or he asks, then tell him you do not feel the same way for him as he does for you. Be gentle but honest.
2006-12-28 04:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straightforward. Tell him how you feel in person. It will probably crush him, so be as gentle as possible. Offer to be there if he needs you. However, he will most likely not talk to you for a while if ever again. Good luck.
2006-12-28 04:53:16 · answer #7 · answered by Pretty birds ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice about it dont be harsh but tell him you dont feel the same way you used to and teh way he feels about you and then let the brakeup lines come in but just remember dont be mean and dont let it come out just like that let it come into the conversation itfels and follow along dont worry everything will fall into place and be nice and ask if it is ok to just be friends.
2006-12-28 04:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by Push Play for Jonas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth. Even though it might hurt him. Just be honest you won't be comfortable not telling him so do it now before this gets worse.
2006-12-28 04:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by RoseFairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him an email....tell him that you think he is a very nice person but he is just not the one for you
that is about all you need to do......I would send an email because you can say exactly what you want to say
make it short and sweet
2006-12-28 04:49:33 · answer #10 · answered by besthusbandever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋