It's only been 9 months?

Question

why is he already fed up of my questions.He's like oh not one of these questions again.should i just stop asking questions all together

just asking typical questions everyday questions

Answer 1

No you shouldn't stop asking questions but you already know the answer to some of them

Answer 2

Ask him if he can spell "incompatible". You sound desperate to maintain the relationship. I'm sorry.

This is the dynamic that may be occurring: You enjoy discussions and give and take, learning about the other person on the inside. He finds it uncomfortable, boring or just doesn't want that from you. This is an incompatibility. Doesn't mean you should dump him, but it sure means he'll never be your soul mate. Looking for all the answers from one other is a pipe dream, but there has to be a minimum amount of compatibility for it to be a relationship. The good has to outweigh the bad, don't you know. So, you should not make him uncomfortable intentionally ...

UNLESS there are issues of TRUST involved. (If one of "those questions" is like why are these panties under your bed?) Thats a whole different subject! If thats the case, dump him. The trust will never be there- your styles are just too different. You may have trust issues, or may not. He may be trustworthy or may not, but the styles are just too different.

All we can work on is our own issues. If you tell him that his behaviour upsets you (like him not calling, flirting with others, or decapitating small animals :) ) and he isn't willing to fix it, then its not much of a relationship. Once he knows his behaviour is damaging he'll either change it or not. If not, then that speaks louder than words, doesn't it? Nobody is perfect, but we all have to try and grow. (Its obvious that IF the fix is just an explanation, then thats not too much to ask for, if the fix is to prove he is trustworthy every minute of every day then you, not he, needs help) The good must out weigh the bad.

Answer 3

You need a lesson on the differences between men and women.
Women are right brained, men left. We don't, as men, talk as much as women. When we do talk we don't go into detail. We don't like a bunch of questions. How was your day is enough of a question. You will get fine, okay, lousy, could have better as an answer. That means we don't want to talk about it so don't ask a bunch of questions trying to find out more. If we want to talk about it it will eventually come out. Men, unlike women are not great communicators. ON an average day we use 30 to 50 % less words than a woman. We like to use our imagination to fill in where a woman goes into detail of her day or experience.
Constantly asking questions is a big turn off for a man. Just limit your questions to simple short ones. How was your day? answer, Okay. Reply, that's good. If he wants to tell you more he will.

Answer 4

it depends on the question and how you ask, are you nagging, rather than being concerned, etc.

i don't see u not asking questions leading to a successful relationship. although that may please him, it will definitely frustrate you. what you can do is try to find a balance. or not ask all the questions at the same time.

Answer 5

I don't know why he is fed up. Ask him.

BTW...nine months is pretty long time to be asking someone the same type of questions over and over.

Answer 6

Ask as many questions as you want

Thanks for the two points :)

Answer 7

He is propbanly going through som mood swings. Just dont ask him questions very ofton.

Answer 8

No, keep the communication lines open, but you need to find something more interesting to talk about.

Answer 9

What are you asking him? I think it depends on the type of questions.

Answer 10

No you should just leave him, if you like to ask questions then that is who you are & you shouldnt compromise yourself....why be with someone who doesnt let you be you...