i cant stop thinking of my ex i see him alot he still acts like he loves me but hes living with someone else and i cant go on with my life hes the only one i dont want to live without him i cant ive met othe guys but they dont intrest me like he does i love him so much and i wanna stop ive tried everything and i dont want to end my life cuz i cant have him and thats how i feel right now
2006-12-28 04:20:27 · 16 answers · asked by susette r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ending your life is the "easy" way out- the hard way is to stick around and deal with your feelings and problems. You need to realize that it's OK to cry and be upset. So cry when you need to cry, but make sure that you laugh some too. Spend time with the people you love: friends and family. Go out for a drink with a friend, go to dinner with a co-worker- do whatever you have to do to take your mind off of the break up. Even if it is only for an hour. Time will pass and you'll slowly think about him less. Don't jump into another relationship until you're ready- that just spells disaster. I really feel for you but keep your head up, sunny skies aren't too far away!! Good luck!
2006-12-28 04:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by kellilicious5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you feel that way. It's completely natural to feel devastated. You must believe everyone who has answered you, though, and take it on faith that these feelings for your ex will pass.
It's time to keep the concentration on you.
1. Talk to friends and family.
2. Do nice things for yourself.
3. Write down your feelings in a journal.
If you are feeling suicidal, you must call the help hot-line in your area. Your ex is not worth it. If you are feeling very scared, you must summon up the strength to just make that one call. You can do it.
I know it's incredibly painful right now, but you will get through this and you will find a man who will love you so much that you will wonder what you ever saw in your ex.
It's the law of the universe and it will happen to you.
Hang in there.
2006-12-28 12:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone to talk to and share all your emotions. Ending your life is a permanent fix to a temporary situation! I know your hurting a lot right now but the world didn't stop just because your relationship ended so that means there's more to your story, so get up and go out and find yourself. The next guy will come along before you know it, oh and no one will look good to you if you stay stuck on the old one. Good Luck!
2006-12-28 12:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by kay2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not consider this over a man. Do you have kids? Concentrate on your kids now. If you don't have kids, concentrate on your own self for awhile. When you feel good about yourself, you will meet someone new who is worth your affection, and you will find happiness again and life will be so wonderful again. Don't give up. The fact that he acts like he still loves you is he doesn't want to cut all ties with you in case it doesn't work out with the new girl. Don't fall for this. Don't be there for him to rebound to when his new relationship fails. Move on, find someone else. You only want what you can't have. He's got you hanging on and he's got you right where he wants you. Don't let this guy run your life. Move on and find someone better.
2006-12-28 12:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you stop thinking that way, because no man is worth losing your life over. No matter how much you love him. You need to get on your knees and talk to God. He can take the pain away. You have to have time to grieve, and get over him. There is someone out there for you, obviously he is not the one. Another thing you should do is talk to him. Let him know how you feel, and ask him how he feels. If he still wants to continue being with another girl, then it is time to move on. Don't let him continue to control your thoughts and your life. Good luck.. It will get better.
2006-12-28 12:25:30 · answer #5 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey little girl cheer up.Your so young the guy is going to come to his senses and say why did i let her slip away?Never Never take your life.What about your loved ones and your future kids which i can see you with.This is temparary, so please don't do anything to hurt ur self.Life is too short and Precious.Than if u did u got to answer to GOD.Please seek some more help like you've started.I'm proud of you.Please, please Don't hurt ur self.There is so much to live for.Just look around you.Life No matter what bad goes on so be a strong person i know you to be and hang on.And don't let go till ur safe Someone who cares for you Victor F
2006-12-28 12:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by Victorio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life goes on. things happen for a reason, as one door closes another one opens. of course it suck to not have the one you love, and yeah it will definitely take along time for you to get over the one you love, but you have to know that there are other fish in the sea, and you may love him so much right now but that will eventually fade.
2006-12-28 12:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Dory Ian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay. tricky one. tell him he's tormenting you ask him if he still has feelings for you. if he says no then there's no doubt in your mind. in order to get over this you just need time. go away for a while; a week or two, clear your head. and have faith in the power of time. you know you can get through this, you're stronger than you think. i know that because it's true to everyone. it will sort itself out it time, everything always does. i promise.
2006-12-28 12:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by smethansmee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I'm going thru this. Stay busy with friends. Don't be alone. Start dating --at least put up posters of hot men or something to distract you and wake you up. Sometimes I think these assholes we fall for and give half our lives to --the exs--they wouldn't think twice to kill us in our sleeps, because look at how heartless they are. Forget him. He doesn't give a damn about you.
2006-12-28 12:29:07 · answer #9 · answered by crazyloonynice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wooooow. You need to calm down dear. Bad breakups happen to everyone. But there are MILLIONS of people on this planet. Someone else will make you equally, if not more happy than him.
2006-12-28 12:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by =] -- * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋