I have a 2 questions...
1) Why is it that if a girl is dating a older man it is unexceptable but if a guy does he is favored... like highly respected??? and i mean it may be only 3 or 4 yrs difference.
2) Why is it that guys love to see strippers but they dont wanna date them .... i meant hey might as well they give them all this money for what?? NOTHING... for free.. a guy can see azz and T*tts at home!!
2006-12-28 04:17:25 · 9 answers · asked by Renee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Women tend to date older men because we mature faster and boys our own age are not on the same page as we are... When we are in our early teens, they are still playing with transformers, when we are in our middle teens, they are still shy around girls, when we are in our older teens, they are still thinking with the wrong head, when we are in our early 20's they are still thinking with the wrong head *lol*, and so forth...
When a man dates an older women, to his 'pack' its like, he has broken out and is proving that he is more mature than the rest so he is commended for that.
However, with double standards, women who date much older men are often labled as looking for a sugar daddy or have daddy issues...
Its crazy, I know, but just deal with it.
2. Men dont date strippers because they feel that if everyone sees her naked, then whats the point of her being naked for just him. They dont because they are insecure and think she is sleeping with other men too. I think its foolish, SOME strippers really are just trying to make some quick cash.
2006-12-28 04:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by *meh* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought that a woman dating an older man was the norm- or maybe I'm a dirty old man? I thought older women with man was about Ashton Kutcher and similar mummies' boys.
Men seeing strippers- free (emotionally) sexual titillation without the hang-ups of a relationship.
Personally, I think it's stupid- I'd much prefer to have a date- at least you don't have to watch out for funny stains on the walls and floors and you never feel sleazy exiting a restaurant.
2006-12-28 12:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ministry of Camp Revivalism 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all who says its unexeptable for a girl to date an older man??? No one I know says that.
Second men love strippers because they love to look at what they cant have, they dont date them because that would make them "known" or boring and lastly I dont know about you but I dont give away my T'n'A for free at home...my boyfriend spoils me rotten and spends way more on me then he would on a stripper.....
2006-12-28 12:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by christine a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Cause it is expected by tradition. I mean, go back to caveman. That is where it originated, As in the guy is making the most of the older woman's fertility and in the girls case, she is supposed to be for a young strong chap
2. Cause it would be embarassing. And they go to them for *safe* variety.!
2006-12-28 13:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by Sarab s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)They are "MEN" and we are "WOMEN" its something that I will never get.
2) AMEN gUL!!!! I agree wit you 100% on that. I guess they jus want to see something new other than they have at home. And they dont want to date them probably because they are " STRIPPERS"
2006-12-28 12:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by candylicker_2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men want to see strippers but they don't want to take them home to mother because of the type of life styles that comes along with it and some men get tired of steak sometimes and want chicken
2006-12-28 12:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can kinda answer your first question.
It is the same reason if a guy has sex with alot of people he is considered a pimp but if a girl does the same she is a slut or whore!
2006-12-28 12:22:17 · answer #7 · answered by teacuptiff86042002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will be guys.
2006-12-28 12:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't know
2006-12-28 12:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋