my ex g/f of 4 years broke up with me 6 wks ago i have been trying to find out why she did finally boxingday i phoned and she told me
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18 months ago i got sacked for touching up the bar staff at work but the reports where far from the truth and she did'nt like what she read
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that i did not surport her when her nan died 16 months ago whice i did the best i could
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i smoked not in the house but i smoked(i've smoked since we meet)
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i was not earning lots of money but in 2 year i will own my own business
so really sounded to me that she was trying to think of past events of what happened if that was the reason why would she stay with me for 18 months i find this wierd!!!!!!!
also she is dealing with anarexica + depression and it was a hasty break up on her part i'm happy now moving on slowy but confused by what she said also she text me the next day saying that she loved me dearly,wants the best for me in the future and when we are stronger we can build a friendship!
2006-12-28 03:29:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cut the cord! It doesn't really matter why she broke up with you. Although we always like to know, it sounds like she's making excuses because she just didn't want to be with you anymore. You sound like a nice guy. Letting this go is the only way you'll be able to truly move on. I assume that you're still not completely over her, and that will take time, but you have to make an effort to move on and not hold on to one single thing, not even friendship. If it happens, it happens, don't make it a goal or you'll never be able to let her go.
2006-12-28 03:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by AK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i myself have not read any of your past questions. so weather you have asked this for the first time or the 10th. i will answer the best way i can. first of all, this occurred how long ago and yet your saying that your happy and moving on. come on your dwelling.another words your beating a dead horse. let it go already. regardless if she is trying to make up reasons as to why she broke it off the end results are still the same. it is over.stop calling her, stop text message each other.be happy that it ended now instead of when you have more to offer that she would not appreciate.
2006-12-28 11:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well get some manners and respect to tothers and other life and you better stop smoking before you end up wuith a deiseas this is 15 years old advice to you crazy man
2006-12-28 11:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by ~Insanity Has Taken Over~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you are doing fine without her, but are confused as to the sudden whys? Sometimes the heart wants what the heart wants. She was no longer feeling the love and when you pushed her for "reasons", she came up with things that she felt weren't "perfect". I would just chalk it up to experience and move on.
2006-12-28 11:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget her I know it sucks and I know you have heard it before but the is reason you are not together. I didnt even read your mini-novel I just went from the hip. Exes should stay exes it just makes it worse to fall back in love to only get reminded why you ended it the first time.
2006-12-28 11:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by gstolard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe someone else is influencing her about the break up, but good for you for moving on. sounds like she has some issues any ways and you don't need that when you get a your own business
2006-12-28 11:38:47 · answer #6 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably was cheating on you, interested in someone else or just didn't want to be with you because we all know people come up with every excuse in the book and try to blame you for her inconvenience when they are in the wrong and if that's the case you don't need her anorexic *** anyway good luck with moving on i hope your life is stress free without her
2006-12-28 11:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by ohsosexy2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants you to realize that you have OCD. Did you ask her the same questions over and over? How many times must you ask before moving on?
2006-12-28 11:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by Cool-K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON. It's over dude - stop spending precious moments dwelling on a broken relationship.
2006-12-28 11:39:44 · answer #9 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The anorexia could be contributing to it a lot, as people with EDs seek perfection, and since perfection is virtually unattainable to her, she wants a perfect mate, and maybe doesn't see that perfection in you.
2006-12-28 11:32:00 · answer #10 · answered by spontaneousishowiroll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋