what would u do if u found out that your child was being bullyied at school?

Question

i make sure my child kicks their *** or i'll b doing it 4 her!!!

Answer 1

Report the abuse to your kid's teacher and principal. Then, put it in writing and copy the town's school committee. If nothing happens file a police report...It's called assault & battery.

Answer 2

We started having this problem 2 years ago with my son. In kindergarten it was a little girl, she kept kicking him. We talked to his teacher and it stopped. Last year it was a boy that tried to bully him around - contacting the teacher didn't help. This year that same boy is still terrorizing my son. We've told him to stand up for himself, as well as contacted his teacher, and we're still having issues. The teacher really makes the difference. Some are willing to step in and try to stop it, others seem less likely unfortunately.

My son has gotten in some trouble because of things the other kid has done that nobody saw happen. We know what the true story is, but it is still devastating to have the principal call and say something along the lines of "your son urinated on the bathroom floor 1 foot away from the urinal" when he gets home we find out that the bully pushed him away just as he was starting to go....

Answer 3

I have been there so here is what I did. I set up an appointment with the Principal and my daughter's
teacher. I expressed my concerns and asked what was
being done and what will be done about the bullying.
Wish I could assure you that put an end to it. It didn't.
I then had to arrange a meeting with the parents of the
bully. That didn't stop it either. It took my daughter fighting
back by standing up to the bully to end the abuse.
Sadly the " Zero Tolerance" act doesn't stop the bullying
in school. This act only enables the bully and punishes
the victims. I suggest you ask to talk with the Principal,
teacher and parents and make your position clear that
the bully must stop or you will talk further legal action.
Schools are legally responsible for the safety of all
students. Parents and students can be held responsible
for their actions or lack of. Good luck. This is a problem that requires immediate attention.

Answer 4

first tllk calmly to the child find out whats going on ,then let them know you are going to help them and protect them and that you dont blame them at all for this happening to them its not their fault this is the most important thing to let them know you are on their side ,then i would have a word with the school ,i would also take and pick my child up from school till this problem was solved,i would also want a meeting with the bullies to say my bit to them ,see if this cant be sorted out properly ,as why are they doing this ,are they themselves being bullied at home and this is why they are doing this to your child ,if not and they are just really nasty then i would involve the police,have these kids cautioned.if this isnt stopped god only knows what they will be up to next ,,,you need to be in their faces ,showing them that you support your child ,and your child needs to show them that it also has the courage to see they are stopped ,this will be very scarey for your child but with you by there side will give them the strengh to do it ,tell your child never to stay quiet about this sort of thing,as bullies are the weak ones ,,,,,also tell your child to stay with others at school in a group if they can as bullis dont like to have wittnesses,,,,,i hope this is of some help to you ,,,kat

Answer 5

My daughter was being bullied at school and there is nothing that pisses me off more than to know that someone is being mean to my child. I talked to the teacher, she didn't do anything, so my husband went and told them to move the little girl who was bullying, so they did. If it happens again I have made a promise that I will call the other child's parents and let them know they better get a grip on their child. I told my daughter to defend herself, but she wouldn't do it. My daughter is really a mild tempered child but she is bigger than the rest of the girls her age, so if she had defended herself, they would not continue to bully her. She stays away from the kids who are bullies now. Most people don't agree with them defending themselves, but I do!!!

Answer 6

when we went through the bullying crap i tried talking to the teacher, the principal, and after that failed i went to the district office. when that still didn't get things resolved i called the principal again and told her one more incident and i would be calling the police and filing assault charges on the child (a 6th grader) the enxt time he left a mark on my kindergartner. i ended up doing that.
i take a zero tolerance policey on bullying. Its also a state law here.
i have since taught my kiddo how to stand up to bullies and what to do. for her self confidence and safety she has also been studying taekwondo, during recess she will practice on the playground, preparing for competitions, no one messes with her now

Answer 7

At the very least, don't take it lightly. Find out how much of a problem your child thinks it is. I was bullied when I was younger, and ended up with depression and with lots of problems because of it. The only thing that ever made it stop was me acting up myself. Take care of it now by talking to the teachers and your child.

Answer 8

You should talk with the teachers or the principals, but if things get worse, take your child out of that school immediately. Over here, where i live, we have HORRIBLE school systems and children are ruthless! There have been severe bullying cases. One case happened to my mother's friends' daughter who is in high school. Some girl beat her up and ripped the hair right out of her scalp! She needed some serious stitches. Take bullying seriously, because it can become worse. Talk with the child and their parents. If nothing is done, take your baby right out of that school because school is becoming too dangerous. Check out some websites for other options.
-Kiarra S.

Answer 9

First I would notify the childs teacher, principal and,or, assistant principal of this matter. Then I would make the principal call the other student or students' parents and schedule a meeting in the principal's office. He or she must do it otherwise the distric will be notified by you the parent. Call the distric and explain the problem, if they dont listen call your local news channel...i'm sure they will be more than happy to listen.... Problem solved.....trust me it happens alot where i work.

Answer 10

Firstly i will see why a child is bullied by others.Is this because of physical weakness or it is because of emotional problems in my child.If it is physical thing and the child cannt do anything about it himself than i will talk to teachers.
otherwise he should try to stop them himself and if he is affraid of fight or talking to teachers than i will help my child to overcome the difficulties which dont let him to standup in the school and act bravely for his rights.