I broke off a relationship a year and a half ago and she came by my house and gave me her number, I finally called her back to say hi and she started asking 20 questions about why I called. I told her it was to just say hi, due to the fact she came by and gave me her number, and she said that she was confused of my intentions and scared to talk to me because she is seeing someone else. He doesnt care who she talks to and I dont beleive in cheating on someone or seeing someone in a relationship already and she knows that but, to make her fell at ease I told her I would not call again. I have a couple of thaughts but just asking.
2006-12-28 02:38:30 · 14 answers · asked by goodfella150 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wants you back, if she was in a serious relationship she wouldn't have stopped by your house and given you her number.
2006-12-28 02:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it almost sounds like the guy she's dating might have been in the same room as her at the time you called. I don't understand why she would go out of her way to go to your house and give you her number after over a year has passed - just to act distant when you finally call. If the guy was there, she obviously couldn't talk to you the way she really wanted to. So as a result she asks you questions about why you're calling her, and etc. Either that, or she's playing games with you.
2006-12-28 10:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by Queryous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She finally got the courage to drop off the number and probably believed that you would never actually call. but you did. and now she's freaking out. I think she still has feelings but is also trying to feel you out... see if she would be out of line wanting you back or if maybe you feel the same way and its safe. she was just testing the waters hoping for answers that would tell her where she stood with you. for instence if you said... I called cause I missed you and wanted to check in with you. to her she would see that as ok he does still like me. but if you told her I called cause you gave me the number and told me to then she would look at it like he is just doing what he was told and there were no feelings in this. I know its confusing but no one ever said that women are simple! lol Good Luck!
2006-12-28 10:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by crazy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you call in the first place? Looks like she is playing games coming over and giving you her number and then all of a sudden she is "in a relationship and is confused by you calling?"
Start over and leave her be sounds like trouble. Don't let the past shadow your future. Find a new girl!
2006-12-28 10:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's got issues...she probably still feels something for you, but isn't handling it well. The game about giving you her number and then having a fit when you call doesn't sit well with me.
I wouldn't call her again, and just write it off as her being too immature on some level to handle her own feelings.
2006-12-28 10:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by Erika B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess i don't understand why she played dumb with the phone call. She gave it to you. I think maybe she was checking ya. Purhaps to see if her options were open if this guys turns out to a dud. I say walk away. Sounds like trouble.
2006-12-28 10:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make sense that she would give you her number, intending for you to call her, and then be paranoid when she does receive a call from you. Maybe she wasn't expecting a call back and you caught her off guard.
2006-12-28 10:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by spontaneousishowiroll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she would probably have some sort of intention for anaffair,but she wanted to see if you were possibly willing to do that knowing that she was in a relationship. So basicly she wants you!
2006-12-28 10:42:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seeing that she still like you
If were you will not call her anymore let her call you.
Unless you are still interesting but like she said she is seeing someone else.
2006-12-28 10:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must have feelings for you or she wouldn't be scared
and she wouldn't have made a trip to give you her number
you should keep communication up if you want to hook up with her again because it seems possible
2006-12-28 10:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋