Im a newly singleton!!! lol xxx (my boyf was abusive. im not used to being single)
2006-12-28 02:29:28 · 48 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
being independant and free
2006-12-28 02:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by Vanessa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being able to come and go as you please. You can do practically anything you want and only have to answer to you.
Whatevery money you make that may have been divided between you and him is all yours now which translates into having more money.
There are times when you may get a bit lonely, but that is when you take off for a weekend by yourself or with girlfriends and got to Vegas or wherever. You can have as many male friends with no guilt and do whatever you want with them (intimate or not).
Basically the sky is the limit and success or failure is totally on you now. I don't know if you have a higher education or not, go back to school and further your education since you don't have him as a mental distraction anymore.
2006-12-28 02:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be difficult at the moment for u, but life isn't about obligation, boyfriends and family in law. being single allow you to discover lot of things, to exploited and go through new challenges, specially being a single woman is a big advantage, you go out when u feel like, u meet new people, change boy when u fell like. dress the way you want to without needing a boyfriend opinion. stay in if u don't want to go out, you need time to notice all these advantages. just relax, let the pain go out, then enjoy. good luck.
2006-12-28 02:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by JESSICA G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have plenty of answers to choose from but my answer is
"NOTHING"
We all want company most of the time and therefore we all deserve to be happy
You are better off single than in an abusive relationship but there will be a perfect partner out there for you
Good luck and Happy new year
2006-12-28 03:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You now have plenty of space and freedom to regain self-esteem, to get to know you (what you like, what your dreams are, what you expect from life, what kind of person you want to be) and to finally love and respect yourself. Once you've done that you will be able to meet someone that respects you too. A good thing to start with is to volunteer in a association that defends a cause you feel concerned with. You will feel useful, you will meet intersting people, give sense to your life and really build something for you. Good luck.
2006-12-28 02:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything! You have the freedom to do whatever you please without someone else checking up on you all the time. You get more time to focus on work, your hobbies, and your friends. You don't have to worry about being attractive to someone else — only being attractive to YOU. Best of all, if you play your cards right, you never feel like you need a man in your life. There's no better marital status than singlehood.
2006-12-28 04:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having the whole bed to yourself. Getting up when you like and eating breakfast in peace. Not having to take anyone else into consideration when making plans. Being completely free to enjoy your life, without anyone to gainsay anything you do. Being free to think what you want, without worrying what someone else may think of you. Eating what you want, when you want. A bath in peace. The toilet seat and lid down, permanently! Slobbing round in your dressing gown until lunchtime if you want to.
I could go on and on, but I'll just say, enjoy your new-found freedom - sounds like you deserve it! Be happy.
2006-12-28 02:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by Roxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a chance to find happiness instead of being stuck in misery as you were before. I was once in your shoes, divorced with 3 kids from a man that treated me terribly, destroyed my self esteem, and being single was great after that. I eventually found a wonderful man that is now my husband who treats me right. I am very happy.
2006-12-28 02:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by kyeann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there`s a lot to be said about freedom. i hated being single for ages after i broke up wiv my ex but now i relish being free. u can do wot u like wen u like. i have my friends wen i need someone to talk to. don`t get me wrong, if i met a girl i`d go for it if i liked her that much but if i don`t find anyone it wont break my heart. sorry u were in an abusive relationship, i can`t imagine wot that must be like. all i say is enjoy ur freedom while u have it :)
2006-12-28 04:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by groundhog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything is good about being single. You can get to spend your newly found freedom the way you want. You'll get to find new ways and paths in life.......it'll freshen you up. Don't be a stuck up........move on in life!!!
2006-12-28 02:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by precious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spending time with friends. Being free to do anything YOU want to do. Getting drunk on New Year and sleeping around. Using precaution of course
2006-12-28 02:52:27 · answer #11 · answered by Citizen Ted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋