Do you wait days,weeks,months? Just curious!!;0)
2006-12-28 01:07:52 · 26 answers · asked by Doris 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not looking for advice, I'm not an innocent teen!!! Just curious to hear other people's view points!!
2006-12-28 01:17:37 · update #1
until you've both had enough to drink.....
2006-12-28 01:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by Snowth 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It depends on the relationship, and each individual and situation. It is all well and good to say : Wait for marriage, 6 months, 2 years etc., but when the hormones take over, time just doesn't seem to matter anymore!! As long as you are certain that you are morally not "slutty" and that it is not a casual thing, then I say that the time limit will show itself! You don't really have much control if you are sexually attracted to another person, and the relationship is moving forward. I always said I would wait for MONTHS before getting into a sexual relationship again and then POW! Mr Hormone took over and it was only after 11 dates! (That was however 9 months ago - and still going strong!) Call me a ****, but we love each other!!
2006-12-28 09:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I would think that would depend on the person. To some people (like me), sex is important, and I would want to have it fairly quickly. I define fairly quickly as within the first 3 dates. Now the reason is because it is like the first kiss on a date....you worry about it, etc. So once it's over, the pressure is off and then you can spend more time focusing on the other person.
2006-12-28 09:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
how long is a piece of string. my last boyfriend i waited 2 months , my current partner two days which was very soon but it felt like we had known each other years
2006-12-28 10:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited 20 minutes.
2006-12-28 10:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by paul k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the last few times its been about 30 seconds --- with my lady that i dont know maybe hours days months
and i am older been married so sex is an enjoyable activity between 2 consenting adults and does not have any special meaning one way or the other
2006-12-28 09:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Five minutes! lol Really, I wait several weeks, 'cause I want a long-time relationship and not just a blasted one-night stand!
2006-12-28 09:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depending on how much you've had to drink, anywhere between 2 and 12 hours before you have sex.
2006-12-28 09:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by white.devil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends how involved you are. But I would say from 1 week to 1 month. That's what I did anyway. x
2006-12-28 09:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by tulip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you go out with a new lady you have to make it plain that it might not be the first night. It might not be the second night, or even the third night. But sooner or later, you are gonna want to GET NAKED.
2006-12-28 09:12:09 · answer #10 · answered by Not Ecky Boy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am from the few of the kind left that believe that you should wait for the one and only one love in your life.
2006-12-28 09:11:58 · answer #11 · answered by maran 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋