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I'm a 22 year old guy looking for short term relationships. Should I make this clear in the beginning?

2006-12-28 00:50:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

12 answers

1. Make it clear from the beginning
2. Go into the relationship with your eyes WIDE open as there are kids involved.
3. Remember, the children may get to like you, and that would hurt them if the relationship ends.

If she is still interested, under these conditions, go for it.

2006-12-28 00:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0 0

I was once a 30 year old single mom so maybe I can help. She has been through alot all ready, and you are too young for her for one. But I feel that if you asked her out knowing that yu just want one thing, that is what you are saying is wrong. She needs do date someone who is older that can understand what she has gone through and may be looking for a long term relationship. Be nice and don't ask her out . There are alot of poor girls out there that are waiting to be hurt by someone like you that don't have any kids that will go through the trama along with mom. Please think about the person.

2006-12-28 01:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0 0

Well, it's likely that this 30 year old mom would like the attention, but her life is definately more complicated than yours (from both a job and family perspective). If she only wants something short term (which I would think is unlikely) then make sure that you're BOTH clear on the terms up front.

2006-12-28 00:52:55 · answer #3 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1 0

im turning 30 next year and im a mom...i have a sis inlaw who is a single mom but younger than i am for 3 years. women at that age (30 years old) hopes and dreams of a very serious relationship that would last long so i think its better not to make any move if youre just going to make it for a short term.

2006-12-28 01:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by grr 1 · 0 0

Hell yes, I was a single mum for 5 years and it was great when I met a younger man to help eleviate my stress and bring some adult fun into my life whilst bringing up my daughter. Just make sure you tell her up front.

2006-12-28 00:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Take the laptop out of his room and set it up in a important component of the homestead like the front room and placed filters on it so he can no longer get into pron etc. If he has a television in hose room, take that out of there too. He can in basic terms watch television interior the front room and in basic terms once you're saying. particular companies can get channels blocked as nicely. you additionally can get a gadget which will promptly close the television whilst time runs out and he can no longer turn it back on except he has the code If he performs violent age irrelevant video games, take them away make useful your mom follows the comparable regulations as you so he can no longer wreck out with undesirable habit. If he does some thing that breaks your regulations, eliminate privileges. Like no television, no video games, no laptop etc. As for the cousin, sounds like a terrible impact and that's the place extremely some the habit is coming style. I accept as true with out longer allowing your toddler to bypass over there to sleep. in certainty i does no longer enable him over there in any respect. The cousin might ought to come to my homestead and obey my regulations or bypass away. as quickly as you placed the regulations, stand with the aid of them. do no longer enable him wreck out with breaking them and throwing a tantrum over it. placed your foot down.

2016-11-24 19:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

YES!!!!! I'm sure you'll find women who are looking for the same thing so at least there won't be feelings hurt.

2006-12-28 00:56:02 · answer #7 · answered by CMB 1 · 0 0

Yes you should be clear about this upfront.
You will not only be involving your self with her but with her kid(s) as well. (It is a package deal).

2006-12-28 01:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0 0

She might just be looking for the same thing....but pay for her babysitter.

2006-12-28 00:54:21 · answer #9 · answered by an88mikewife 5 · 0 0

if you know each other and your good with kids and want tyo put yourself in those kids lives then yea but if not then don't

2006-12-28 00:54:02 · answer #10 · answered by Dw 2 · 0 0

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