i like this boy and this boy likes me....i had told all my friends that me and this boy was talking except for one of my friends because i knew she was going to say something that was going to make me feel bad....but last week i told her everything about me and that boy....she told me off and she satrted cursing at me telling me things that really made me feel bad....she thinks that the reason why i moved from my lunch table was because of that boy...but no it wasnt like that i moved form that table before that boy even liked me i move to play cards but she dont think that.......now we dont talk.......what should i do ???????
2006-12-28 00:03:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since you were worried about talking to her about this boy in the first place, for fear that she would say things to make you feel bad, it is obvious to me that she is a controlling, jealous, self-centered, insensitive girl.
Honest, she is not a true friend.
I would do my very best to view that you are better off without her. And that is true!!!!! You don't need someone who makes you feel bad every time you do something that she doesn't want you to do or approve of.
There are so many other girls who I am sure would like to replace her as your friend!!!!
Please make new friends, and don't worry about this girl. If she has other friends, then let her vent her hate to them, not you.
Good luck to you!!!!!!!
2006-12-28 00:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by Peekie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what you should do...This isnt easy for you cause you are the type of person who is a great friend. Its never easy figuring out what to do cause u actually care about your friend. There is nothing wrong with that. This is rare in people. What makes you great is you kno how to work with people. If you know a person u know how to deal with them. That is very important in making it in life. Working around people and still doing your thing. You knew how your friend would react. But you also knew that as a friend its your duty to tell her how you feel about that guy. Your keeping your end of the friendship. Thats all cool but now what we also know is that obviously she likes the guy. Its not like she just up and got mad at you right? Thats the real reason u didnt want to tell her about him. U knew she would be negative.
Now u like this guy and u always want to take that chance cause it might be love and u dont want the chances of that to past you. U need to proceed with hooking up with him. Go back to your girlfrend... be big, bold and serious about that with her. uR not in kindergarten anymore. Ask her to put it out in the open how she feels. She wont have a problem with that. She seems like the expressive type. If she needs more time give it to her. But dont put your love life on hold cause of her. If your really shy (though no one is really shy, so ur not) u might have a problem talking to her straight up. The friendship is important to you so tell her that she means alot to you OR that u still want to be friends. Ask her whats up for real and dont seem like ur gonna die without her. Ur smart so u know u wont. It doesnt matter why u moved from the table. Talk to her and nothing else will matter. Its time to move on ;-)
2006-12-28 08:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by TheLoveGuru;-D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off... stop stressing love.... and secondly - never ever fall out with a friend over a boy !
If she is a true good friend then she shouldn;t be giving you grief over liking a boy - however - you said you spoke to her last about the boy thing, so that suggests that you don;t really trust her like you do other people... perhaps she is not the friend you need and if that's the case you shouldn;t be worrying about upsetting her, or you shouldn;t let her upset you.
take it easy - good luck with the boy.xx
2006-12-28 08:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know what? I love a guy and it has been two years that he is my only crush...i love him more than anyone else..but that guy never came to know..there are THREE girls in his life and i didn't tell because i didn't want to be the "fourth" one..i believe that if that guy was mine, i could even fight with my friends, leave alone a schoolmate..so dear, you are so lucky that the guy you love also loves you..why to worry about others? And in first place i wouldn't mind keeping it a secret rather than telling somebody who will not be very happy with it. Next time ANYONE says something that hurts you, just say "i don't care " and move ahead because-
past is history,
future is mystery,
but present is god's greatest gift to us..
and we should enjoy it.
Hope it helps..God bless.
2006-12-28 08:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like this is a person that is not the best friend for you. If you really like the boy then you should work on your relationship with him and shot her to the curb. Why does it make her so upset for you to have a boyfriend.
2006-12-28 08:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by redh2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa,,that is quite a big problem.. well you see.. if she is really your friend, i cant imagine that she is doing that to you.. anyway, back to the problem.. it's not your fault that the guy likes you.. i think your friend is just jealous.. if not, she doesn't trust you.. what you should do, is to go back to your former lunch table in order for you to prove that you did not transfer lunch table because of that boy..
2006-12-28 08:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by nadzki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why does it matter if you were sitting in a different table. it's not like you guys stop being friends. and from the sounds of that you guys don't sound like you guys were friend from the start. but if you really want to make things right with her then explain to her why you moved, but if i were you i woundn't. good luck! :D
2006-12-28 08:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your young, and life doesn't always turn out the way we want. Try talking to her and explaining things, if that doesn't work, just go on. A real friend is someone who will stick by you even when they don't like the things you do.
2006-12-28 08:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you feel that you have to justify any thing tht you do with the friend. Does she control your life? What do you want to do? If you like this boy, you don't have to explain anything to anybody about it. Live your life for you and not for your friends.
2006-12-28 08:10:18 · answer #9 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like she is a hater or a dyke that likes you.
Forget her, but be careful people like that will try and get things started, So keep your eye peeled
I had the same thing occur to me at my job, a month ago......
Just leave her alone before you get yourself in trouble. Find someone real with their self. I' m almost positive shes a dyke
2006-12-28 08:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by alluremn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋