everytime i like a guy .. my sister feels it and she tries to take him away from me and that works with her even shes older than me .. and i cant help it ... so what can i do to have a guy for myself?? kill her???
2006-12-28 00:00:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems like she's not to be trusted. My sister is a lot like your's as well. It's pretty hard not to tell someone I'm so close with my secrets, but sometimes you just have to bottle them up or tell someone else.
Talk to her about it and ask why she's doing it. Maybe she sees it as some sort of competition to prove that guys are more attracted to her than you.
But if she thinks that, it's not true at all... You've got to have more confidence. And if a guy you like goes out with your sister/likes her, you probably shouldn't pursue anything with him. Obviously guys who would like your sister aren't guys you would want to be dating.
2006-12-28 00:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister was the exact same way. shes older, the father of her daughter is actually a date I had one sat afternoon that showed up at our place before I got home. she had just enough time to make him comfortable, get drunk and go out on my date for me before I got home. She also married my other sisters boy friend once. She quit drinking and that all stopped. she was a blackout drinker and when she would wake up in the morning she didn't realize what she had done. Telling her about the night before just made her want to get drunk and not think about it. she made some bad choices and who knows why she had to have her sisters men. butt she did wise up when she scared herself straight.
Does your sister drink? Either way you should give her a,"when you________, I feel.________." Those are always helpful and might open her eyes to what she's doing.
Luck to You,
Z
2006-12-28 00:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by zia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha ha.. Yes.. I would too if i was in your situation... However, you can go to jail for that. Plus blood should be thicker than water.
If a guy likes you for who you are... and he is true and 'serious' about liking you, no matter how your sister goads him away from you, he won't fall for it.
So far, the men you like are infatuations. Don't let it get to you. Your sister is just filtering through the frogs from the prince. ;) Don't be dishearten... *hugs*
2006-12-28 00:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by Meela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find a guy and you really like each other then you should be able to explain this problem to him up front. Then he'll be ready when you sister tries to play her little game.
2006-12-28 00:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she can take your guys this easy from you,the guys are not worth having anyway,they are the kind that will cheat on you and just use you,if the guy really likes you he is not going to let anybody take him from you.
2006-12-28 00:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her (or anyone else) that you like the guy. When your relationship with him is strong enough she won't be able to take him away. Also, ask your sister why she does this.
2006-12-28 00:03:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tell her it's bothering you, and if she still does it tell her it's coming in between your relationship with her. then don't tell her you like a guy, try not to even let on.
2006-12-28 00:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by shabyc411 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. A faithful and committed one won't betray you even if you sis seduces him. Find that kind of guy. Seducers are everywhere, that's why it all depends on your bf. If he truly loves you, he'll remain with you at all cost.
2006-12-28 00:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by bogey 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep him away from her so dont take him home.You really have a rotten sister
2006-12-28 00:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by jjinbkk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister wants attention either from you or your parents, that is why she did all these. In the normal turn
2006-12-28 00:04:21 · answer #10 · answered by Love cake:-) 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋