If it is real love,,,,then yes,,,, but based on what we see on "TV" and see in books and magazines,,,and the internet, and radio,,,,NO. I think that if you are in love,,,real love,,, you will not have the drama that comes with infatuation,,,,which is alot of times mistaken for love,,,,,REAL LOVE is an un-explainable understanding of two people,,,and never has to be questioned,,,,their is trust, loyality , committment , honesty , stability , respect , giving, tenderness, compassion, a protector, warmth, kindness, friendship, and a strength, in both of you that no one can come between,,,,if it is real love,,,,those are things that never have to be worked on, or forced to feel,,,,they just come natural,,,and with infatuation,,,all of those things we fight over, try to work on with marriage counseling,, and try to hold on to for years of unhappiness, and sorrow,,,because the so called
"fire has gone out",,,read this book to rekindle your love life,,,,WHATEVER,,,,,ALL THAT IS ,,,IS A WAY FOR PEOPLE TO MAKE A DOLLAR OFF OF OTHERS PAIN, AND SORROW,,,,THAT IS NOT REAL LOVE,,,THAT IS CONFUSION OF WHERE WE WENT WRONG,,AND WHY WE HAVE STAYED IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR SOO MANY YEARS WHEN WE KNEW WE WERE NO LONGER COMPLETE AS A COUPLE,,,WE HAD DRIFTED APART AND NEVER WANTED TO ADMITT WE HAD FAILED,,,WHEN REALLY WE DIDN'T FAIL AT OUR RELATIONSHIP,,,IT WAS THE WORLD AROUND US THAT FAILED,,,FROM ALL THE MIS- CONCEPTION GIVEN TO US ON WHAT REAL LOVE IS,,,,BUY HER THIS PAST, PRESENT, AND FUTURE RING,,AND SHE'LL LOVE YOU FOREVER,,,EVERY KISS BEGINS WITH KAY,,,BUY HIM A LINCOLN NAVIGATOR AT LINCONL.COM,,,,BLAH BLAH BLAH,,,,,,,
OVER THE YEARS OF TV, AND COMMERCIALS, AND SITCOMS,,,WE HAVE LOST THE SENSE OF ALL REALITY,,,,AND STARTED TO BELIEVE WHAT WE HEAR AND SEE ON SHOWS, AS WHAT REAL LOVE IS,,,,WHEN MAYBE ALL ALONG,,,REAL LOVE WAS RIGHT IN FRONT OF US BUT BECAUSE IT DIDN'T HAPPEN THAT WAY ON GILMORE GIRLS OR SMALLVILLE,,,,,,IT ISN'T REAL LOVE,,,,,HE/SHE NEEDS TO BE LIKE CLARK KENT,,,,OR BRAD PITT,,,,,OR ANGELINA JOILEE,,,,,whatever,,,,it is actually sad,,,because no one takes to heart how a person really is and we all feel the need to try to change someone or our selves to make someone happy,,,the notion that if you are fat,,,,you will never find true love,,,or if you are bald you better get rogain,,,,,ya know,,,,,do you see what I am trying to say,,,,,I just think that how in this day in age,,,,does real love even stand a chance to be enough,,,,,when the expectation is already put in our heads,,,,that it isn't enough unless you own your own home, car, property,
and drive a real nice car, and have a FAT bank account,,,,
If you don't get him/her this our that,,,,and God forbid ...he isn't near good enough if he doesn't go to JAREDS....LOL....
I don't know that is just a opinion from some average girl next door,,,that has never found real love,,,,alot of infatuation,,,,,and still hangs on to the hope that real love is out their,,,,WITHOUT A PRICE TAG OR ROMANCE NOVEL ON THE NIGHTSTAND,,,,,
THANKS FOR LISTENING,,,,AND THAT WAS A REAL GOOD QUESTION,,,,
GOOD LUCK WITH ALL YOUR ANSWERS AND I HOPE YOU ALL FIND TRUE LOVE
DAPHNE
2006-12-28 01:46:27
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