I'm eighteen and i'm scared of women especially the pretty ones. what do i do to become confident around women? Help!!
2006-12-27 23:29:15 · 14 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not unnatural! 18 still young! Go to local clubs or discos and try to dance with potential girls around. See those who have been around without dancing for a long time, go there and ask her to dance with you. During the dance develope some sort of conversation, frindly one.
Go to local liverary more regularly and try develope friendship with one or two girls over there. Join local gym, etc. etc. If still its difficult for you, join internet Chatting room, where you can develope friendly chatting skills. Do not be rude, though. Be nice to the other person over the net. Eventually, you will slowly but surely start to gain confidence with yourself.
On the whole do not worry too much. You are not alone on this, and confidence will gradually come in its natural way.
2006-12-27 23:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry much~~
Many many boys and girls aren't really comfortable about
how they'd appear and how they talk and all that.
They are the same human being like you.
They are sometimes scared to approach as well. They just
don't show it.
Look into the mirror every morning and say really nice stuff
to yourself. Like,,,you are cool, funny, handsome and all that.
You really become like that then. Ever heard about
Pigmalion Effect? If you say it and believe it, it happens eventually.
You are surely the coolest person on earth!!!
Believe and you shall have it !!!!
2006-12-27 23:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
`nicely, i think of that it is not actually the attractive women or any women for that remember. i think of that is purely which you're petrified of rejection, in spite of the indisputable fact that that is not any longer an uncommon element, maximum persons are petrified of rejection or do purely no longer like it. in spite of the indisputable fact that, my concept is which you heavily isn't over being petrified of rejection till you attempt to ask out a women. undergo in innovations that she would be scared and shy besides, so your no longer on my own in this. So purely positioned your maximum suitable face forward, discover that self assurance that is hiding in you, and cutting-edge it and additionally you could't bypass incorrect. additionally pay attention that girls can each so often for the reason that your insecurities and which would be a huge flip off..they like delicate and helpful adult males. SO don't be scared, reason their purely as scared as you..attempt and think of of that each and every time you develop into scared, and that concept on my own would desire to make you experience a minimal of actually greater effective. -Riley
2016-12-18 20:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man u are in a serious problem
first you be confident about yourself think that u are handsome cute and famous
then practise mentally metting a preety gal having a nice chat and evev having a date
after u have done enough practise
have a friend(a gal if possible) and visualise s/he being a gal ,then talk to impress him /her
and be positive all the time
u'll suceed
2006-12-27 23:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iwas like u just when they put on theme keep taking about the same theme or if u wanna start a conversation try music that always work
2006-12-27 23:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advise would be not to worry about it too much because that will make your shyness worse. Bring your friends that you are comfortable to be around and just try to be youself because when you are at ease that can become more attractive to girls. Good luck
2006-12-27 23:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by arlcarb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend more time with your friends who are girls they can slowly help you build up confidence to go out with more girls.
2006-12-27 23:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by Buckytooth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself! You don't have to try to do anything. They are human just like you. If you relax and be yourself, everything should be fine. Stop trying so hard. There is no set answer to this question.
2006-12-27 23:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a sad world after all,
It's a sad world after all,
Ohhhh It's a sad world after all,
Lets all just die.
I agree with the person above.. Grow up
2006-12-27 23:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by •Bamydam• 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get involved in activities that you genuinely enjoy doing. If you meet girls there you will already have something in common.
2006-12-27 23:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋