what should do?iam in a state of confusion
2006-12-27 23:23:00 · 17 answers · asked by neeru 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are not in love.... if there is a question.. the answer is no
2006-12-27 23:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by Gorkem K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love happens! if it has happened for you, please ask yourself.
Love yourself before loving a person next to you. If you cant luv yourself you get confused. Dont jump the gun. Hang on for sometime, take this confusion out of your mind for now. You may realize later your real state of mind. Relax, and ask your inner being about your real feelings. You will have an answer.
2006-12-28 07:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have that feeeling...you'll know whether it's true or not as the time passes. Don't brood on it too much, because your feeling of attraction might change into love. Then, you'd feel like you are tricked by yourself. So don't. Just enjoy it, but don't think too much about it. Love has to do with your heart, not your brain.
2006-12-28 07:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you have to think, "why am I questioning my love for this person? Is there something I don't like about this person that is stopping me from loving them?" Just some self-analyzing... Only you will know if you love someone, but thinking about it more will clarify it.
2006-12-28 07:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey relax and just think that you like the person due his/her outer appearence then its just a passing cloud like crush but if its love
you will come to know about it by looking into your own eyes it would be different than usual and belive me life would seem to be more meaningful and beautiful everything would be wonderful your heart will tend to ponder by just looking at the person so ask yourself -"ALL THE BEST"
2006-12-28 07:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by tania s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you must know that if you inlove you are loving someone whoever He/she is..love is from the heart and not from the mind..don't be double minded,,take a look between negative and positive... don't be confused becaused love is not exactlly confusing.
2006-12-28 07:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by ken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the definition of love is this...
4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
If your "feelings" and definition don't match this it ain't love.
2006-12-28 07:26:16 · answer #7 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really are in love then the question of confusion does not arise.ask urself wat u want from ur partner and wat u like about her..if it does not amount to jus ur physical needs but to an extent when u can make compromises to jus make her happy u can probably say love rules u..love requires a lot more from your end.if u are urself and happy with her n feel that no1 else could make u happier..love it may b..
2006-12-28 07:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by nainaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come to me. I shall open your hart and look, whether an element of love is there
2006-12-28 07:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by rtnkaypee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is ur problem?
who is she
give reason
if u simply write iam confused
u have to give reason
?????????
2006-12-28 07:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by ayesha f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself: do I want to be with this person for a long time?
2006-12-28 07:31:33 · answer #11 · answered by eradicate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋