I'm russian and they think all russian girls are bad, that's why they don't want me to enter their family.
How can i persuade them that i love their son sincerely?
2006-12-27 23:13:38 · 11 answers · asked by lalage19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my guy's korean
2006-12-28 00:08:59 · update #1
baby girl, you have to keep @ it. don't give up. korean parents will always seek a korean girl for their son. they are just old fashion that way. don't hate them, it's just the way they are. let them see how good, kind hearted you are. (but don't be so obvious). just remember that love sees no boundary. good luck
2006-12-29 12:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are giving a broad description like Asian and European. You should mention country of origin and state. i could be of help if he was indian. We indians have no problem with Russians. The way u have written you seem sincere. As a general statement i would like to tell you one thing that when you want to get married then it is always good to get an approval. it is always good to be in a family. when the boy or girl is growing up most of the parents do imagine their children getting married and they have their own dreams of a daughter in law. when they discover something altogether different then they are in a shock and there is instant disapproval. Have patients give some time if your relationship with will carry on for sometime then you will get approval. they will be observing you for sometime. the first thing that might be in their heads is that yours (European) wont be a longtime relationship and that after sometime you will leave/ditch their son. It will be great to persuade his family its all in your ability. My best wishes
2006-12-27 23:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by Shriram M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, learn their custom. In what part of Asia are you referring to? Asian countries though most of the time have similar practices, yet there are some taboos and cultural practices that are not true with other Asian countries. Yes, I cannot blame them if the family perceived you bad in general. Perhaps they based their consideration according to the history of the world, what Russians contributed to the entire world. But, you can change their wrong concept about you people. Prove them wrong of what they're thinking about you. Go gal, you can do it.
2006-12-27 23:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by Code Tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart My wife is Asian, and we have been married for 7 years now. And I am sorry to tell you, Asian people deep down inside of them, They only want their children to marrie Asian. Even if the guy beats his wife that's okay for them as long as she is Asian. But I'll tell you how I get along with my wife's family. Okay I really don't care how they feel or what they think. I love my wife and we have two daughters 7&5. But they can kiss where the sun don't shine. Look if you love this guy and he love's you. Tell him to grow up be a man, And be with his woman. Because Asian men and women have to be told what to do. Or it will never happen. They don't think for themself.
2006-12-27 23:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by omegarussell42 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give them time. All prejudice is based on ignorance. If you continue to be a loving girlfriend to their son they will probably come around. and if not, too bad. You are dating the son, not the family.
2006-12-27 23:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep going at it. Don't give up, 'cause then they will really have a reason to rag on you.
Buy them presents. Try harder. Be nice. Go out of your way.
It might seem wrong that they do not approve you, but they are only looking out for their son. I'm Asian. I know how it works. It is not normal for us to marry out of our race. That might seem racist, but it's not that at all. Just out of tradition. My boyfriend is black. My parents were weirded by it at first, but they love him now. They were never racist. Still aren't.
2006-12-27 23:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by NRT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you per say, your not asian. I have a friend who married a chinese woman,well her parents were not happy (and never were)that thier daughter was marrying a white boy.
Racism is not exclusive to "white" people only.
2006-12-27 23:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart, i am a white russian and will marry a chinese girl. i dont care what anyone else thinks...it is our lives and our happiness that matters most...they will get used to it.
2006-12-27 23:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep up the good work. I am proud of you.
2006-12-28 13:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by strong_intelligent_freedom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't persue them, Just steal their Boy and run far away unless you also want their money!
2006-12-27 23:17:35 · answer #10 · answered by secret society 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋