my ex bf of 3years broke up with me 3months ago. Right after breaking up with me others told me how diff and gloomy he acted. Before i know it he tried getting at 3 other girls and recently successfully hooked up with a co-worker. Does this mean he is really over me? or is it what you call rebound?
2006-12-27 23:07:08 · 19 answers · asked by LT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, he's over you. He was over you when he ended it and just needed time to realign his life around himself instead of you. If this is not what you had hoped for, sorry :-(
Good luck
2006-12-27 23:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter if it's a rebound, he's still over you; and you should get over him.
3 months is long enough, and in addition you should never go back to something that has been abandoned. It will always end, and the next time it will be more painful.
2006-12-28 08:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by JScorpion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like he's moved on with his life. You need to do the same.
The best way to get the thoughts of a GF or ex wife out of a guy's head is for him to get hooked up with someone else.
He's moved on, you are history, and can't go back now.
2006-12-28 07:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know, only he knows how he truely feels, maybe he is on the rebound and thinks the only way to get over u is to sleep about, but that doesnt mean he is totally over u. i rem wen i split with my x and the first time i slept with sum1 new, i still loved my x but things werent right. some things just arent meant to b hun..ive been with my bf for 2 yrs and we r goin through a really really bad time, but wen i think of splittin up it kills me thinkin of him with sum1 else. so i assume ur very upset and hurt, i know its hard but things can only get better. time is a good healer for a broken heart. if he is doin the same maybe u shud too. try to cheer up n b positive xx
2006-12-28 07:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to move on with your life...he has. Whether it is rebound or he is over you, he broke up with you and has been dating others. If it is meant to be then you will get back together...in the mean time, go on with your life...good luck
2006-12-28 07:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's on the rebound and trying to hook up with some one so he will forget about you, on the other hand he might be over you.
2006-12-28 07:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will tell. He could be trying to get over you by bedding other girls. But don't give up. He may come back to you after he discovers that other girls don't have anything special that you could not give him.
2006-12-28 07:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what others told you is accurate, no he's not over you. He's trying to though. So, you need to get on with your life and try to get over him. Don't sit around waiting for him to come back.
2006-12-28 07:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say Good Riddence1
2006-12-28 07:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by secret society 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this bloke thought it might be greener over the fence!!! And then found out that it wasn;t and trying to make you feel bad about yourself. You can find better and don't lower yourself to his standards.
2006-12-28 07:10:31 · answer #10 · answered by tiwrigh2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋