Would a guy date a virgin and be prepared to stay in that relationship even if it means having to wait to have sex for a couple of months or even until marriage??? Or is it all just about sex?
2006-12-27 22:44:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know i'm the most weird person here. I think sex is something happened within a marriage where the two made a life long commitment to give their best to each other. I think both can work on it and explore further if there is any problem in this area.
Sex is not the only thing in a relationship (or in my answer, a marriage). So to answer your question, yes I would wait.
2006-12-28 08:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by Ruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the by product of a happy relationship, which for this girl sounds like marriage.
Surprising as it may sound, sex isn't the goal for all guys, its what happens AFTER you get what you want, the stable loving relationship.
If the religious beliefs the girl holds prohibit her from having sex before marriage, then the guy HAS to respect that.
If she just hasn't met the right person yet, then the guy HAS TO WAIT until she feels she is ready and the time is right.
It isn't all about sex for all guys, if I felt it was the right person I would wait.
2006-12-28 07:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by Finlay S 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
virginity is just a matter of imagination so they say but, a lot to do when in a relationship. it's not just pure sex,it's more of a responsibility and respect. surveys showed that those who had premarital sex early on in a relationship, have a tendency of having extra marital affairs, be it because self respect has been lost?
me, i would still go for a virgin, if and only when i want a wife that that can be left home and be trusted. it will only be then that i'm sure, there's nothing to be compared of.......
2006-12-28 07:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by ethan 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Have done in the past. It's not to bad as you can still play and experiment with each others body's. If your in love with the girl it's easy to do. You forget about the sex. Keep reasuring her though and don't pressure her. She'll see that your loving and caring and want to "make love" with you
2006-12-28 06:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by Citizen Ted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait for a couple of months but not until marriage. I dont think thats being selfish its just that when your not a virgin and have experienced sex you then have sexual needs.
2006-12-28 06:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Dazman 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
been with my girl for ages shes a virgin, shes afraid of sex and i totally respect her choice, theres far more to a relationship than just sex
2006-12-28 06:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by Tower Of Strength 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
all depends if he loves you or not really he should be able to wait and its not all about sex but us men be simple creatures so you can always keep him happy by other means until your ready
2006-12-28 06:48:44 · answer #7 · answered by tbone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not all about sex...I guess I'd wait....but not 'til marriage....I don't want any surprises!...a little bit of fondling and plenty of cuddles is good for a while until she's ready.....
2006-12-28 06:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by JackLove 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I did, I waited nearly six years & then married so it wasn`t about just Sex.
2006-12-28 10:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by edison 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Id wait if she was the right girl for me. If I was waiting and realised she was not the girl for me Id end it
2006-12-28 08:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋