2006-12-27 22:37:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends what you mean by "reacts badly" If they say no, I understand, if they go mad and take the piss like "what the hell are you crazy?! I'd NEVER marry you!!" I'd probably cry, then dump them.
2006-12-27 22:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by tasha 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long you've been going out with each other. If it's a bad reaction then one or the other has totally misread the whole relationship and it's up to the couple how they carry on. It might completely freak out the one proposed to so it might herald the end of the relationship. Popping the question is not something that should be done unless you are sure it's what you are both wanting which must be very difficult to gauge after only a short time.
2006-12-27 22:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by wee stoater 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would react the same way they did. Why on earth would some 1 propose after a short time? Live life to the fullest, Have fun and enjoy life.
2006-12-27 22:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Amanii S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The mistake would have been proposing so soon that the other person freaked out. Learn from the mistake and if the person is worth it try again when the 2 of you have known each other a lot longer if you are still together.
2006-12-27 22:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by lady01love 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make out like you were joking (perhaps) !!!! - it's a pretty difficult one to sort out. If it's a REALLY bad reaction then the marriage probably wouldn't have been as good as the proposer thought!
2006-12-27 22:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by PETER G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
via short term, do you mean....the '2nd date'?? i think of i could could respond in a fashion that in basic terms makes me sense delicate. If it replaced right into a quick relationship, like under 6 months, then i could could say that i could gently enable this person understand that as much as I get exhilaration from their cost in dedication, i do no longer think of that marriage could be even seen an decision, by using actuality that a relationship desires greater time, and greater to construct on, in attending to appreciate one yet another. I mean, i do no longer in my opinion have faith in marriage, yet i think of if my substantial different replaced into telling me they enjoyed me, blah-blah-blah...and carried on like we've been existence companions, etc, i do no longer think of i could easily sense the comparable way. For me, in my opinion, having an early concept in basic terms isn't something i could provide into, in basic terms by using fact there is no longer sufficient communique in a relationship, if it somewhat is too early, to appreciate what you're entering into. Getting married is an excellent determination, and should no longer be taken gently, or used a fashion of a few 'in-the-2nd' pastime that gets out of control of what no longer uncomplicated paintings is going right into a 'long term' relationship, that isn't have been concept-approximately!!
2016-10-19 02:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by goodgion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you mean by "reacting badly", maybe its too soon to ask the for marriage.
2006-12-27 22:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You just wait. Maybe he/she is not really for marriage. Don't put your partner in a rush for marriage or you may destroy your relationship coz your partner may feel pushed into a step he/she s not ready to make. If you love ur partner, just wait.
2006-12-27 22:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by Nurse22 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just sort of laugh it off and say sorry i guess i was rushing into things, or ask( not shout ) why he/she thinks he/she isnt ready for marriage yet.
2006-12-27 22:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by devils sweetheart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask for a refund from the charm school you attended.
2006-12-27 22:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by breezinabout 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋