but the prob is tat he is 3 yrs younger than me,is it ok 2 get married 2 a guy younger than u? i'm 25 and he's 22...otherwise he's quite mature and sensible..
2006-12-27 22:30:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
3 years is not that big of an age difference. If you had a problem with his age you should not have been dating him so seriously. If you love him, marry him. If you don't let him go.
2006-12-27 22:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by lady01love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do I feel like the age difference is not your problem here? You tell us that he is younger than you, you tell us your age, you tell us that he is mature and sensitive, yet you don't tell us the most important thing: do u love him or not? This is the question you should find an answer for. Age is not important, when u decide to spend your hall life (the ideal of a marriage) with a person. They say women mature faster than men (3 years faster, to be more specific), yet there are exceptions that confirm the rule...So stop thinking about age and start thinking about feelings. Your feelings, to be more exact: not his, not your mom's, not his mom's! There have been a lot of studies which proved that in a marriage passion only lasts for the first 2 years, so don't trust your basic instincts either! Just follow your heart, without forgetting about reason! This is the best way never to have any regrets! Congrats, what ever decision u might take!
2006-12-27 22:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by Ciumpirik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are just scared and thats normal its a big commitment. But if you both love each other and are ready for it you shouldnt let age stop you. Once you are grown age is just a number. I have dated a few girls that were 10 years older than me mainly because they were mature and where I am from girls in the early 20's are not mature and dont know what they want in life. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-27 22:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mac H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its ok to get married to a younger guy. He's over 18 years old then there shouldn't be a problem.
2006-12-27 22:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 02:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by goodgion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wy should age matter? there's a 6 year difference between my parents, who have been married for almost 22 years now. and think of this, the age didn't bother you while dating, obviously. and it wasn't an issue while you got serious enough to get to the "big question". so why does it bother you now?
2006-12-27 22:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by Eowyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your feeling decides. 3 yrs difference is no great deal. However, marriage is no joke and you 2 must be mentally and financially prepared.
2006-12-27 22:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by burr burr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it's ok to marry him because the age difference doesn't matter and it's very small. if u want to marry him go ahead!
2006-12-27 22:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by christina23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you are looking for an excuse, When you love age doesn't matter!
2006-12-27 22:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by Intrigued 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That diff, as you grw older, will matter less and less. think, 28 and 31. 40 and 43?
2006-12-27 22:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋