2006-12-27 22:18:25 · 13 answers · asked by jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
BE VERY CAUSAL AND DISCUSS THE PLAN OF FUTURE AND MAKE THE OFFER TO PART FOR WHOLE LIFE.
2006-12-27 22:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Proposing to any girl is very tricky. To top off, if the girl is your friend, it becomes more complicated. I would suggest that you do not take the step immediately. Take your time and find out if she has any feelings for you. To do this, ask her questions like, what kind of a guy she would like to get married to or ask if she has any crush on any guy. You could also check her reaction by telling her one day that a girl has been trying to approach you and make friendship with you. If the girl you are planning to propose to has any feelings for you, she will surely get jealous and react. Watch out for that. Take your time, if you take a hasty decision, it can be very embarrassing for you and hurtful for her. All the best.
2006-12-28 06:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by Raj G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jay, tell her this in person:
"You are the closest person I have ever dealt with & I feel high to be wid you and you have made me feel a better person. Can you be mine forever? If your answer is 'Yes', I am the most happiest person on earth now, if you say 'No', though, I would be happy to remain your friend forever & my feelings to you as a friend will never be deviated. Please forgive me if my proposal has offended your feelings"
If you are little hesitant or not confident enough to tell her in person, you can write to her with your own hand writing and give it to her wid d new year greetings as my frend suggested.
I don't know, If I was there in ur place i would have asked her the above in person.
Check it out! Dont you worry about the consequence, she will say "Yes" to you and if she says "No" also, you are not going to lose her frendship if she is matured enough!
2006-12-28 07:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are good friends, there should not be much of problem. You can just propose her in a decent manner and if it is not acceptable, she might just laugh it off or she might give you some reasons.
The problem shall start when you will try to impose. And I presume, you are wise enough to know that there is no reason to impose.
So, go ahead... Tell her what you have stated in this question.
Good Luck.
2006-12-28 06:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo, ask her out on a some romantic dates for a while. And slowly let her understand that u have feelings for her. Give her some flowers and stuff. Dont do this in a rush, she'll prlly missunderstand u if u do so. So, if she in return doesn't have feelings for u, dont panic, tell her that u can still be friends. Hope dis helps mayne, Good luck dawgg. peace
2006-12-28 09:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by No1SoptTN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know her completely ... her likes dislikes ... n if u love her truely understand her.. but yes dont be after her always. sometimes let her realize tht she misses u.. if she really miss you n feels the same do tell her..
but yeah dont be late and b4 her feelings happen for some1 else just propose her in well mannered and like a matured person face her towards you..
u will get her for sure..
2006-12-28 08:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very simple, Give her new year gift with a card written inside what you want to propose.
2006-12-28 06:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by rockylike007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all dont think unessesaryy things ,
As u have mentioned she is ur friend , U can always talk to her frankly what ever u feel abt her . If she says ok its cool or u can continue with same friendship relationship ....
2006-12-28 06:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your friend try to make her your good friend.
try to see in her eyes whether she likes you or not
and then go ahead and propose her...
2006-12-29 03:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by UnIqUe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want her,you must be ready to risk your friendship because if you don't,you'll regret at what could have been.but if you do,your relantionship with her might end up way better then expected.
good luck!
2006-12-28 06:27:50 · answer #10 · answered by and we all have loved before 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋