2006-12-27 22:04:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know what culture you are coming from, but here in the US a woman never fully leaves her parents when they get married. They may move out of the house, but they always keep in touch with their mothers and fathers. I have a sister who is married. She probably has had more contact with my mother since she married.
There is an old saying where I live on sons vs. daughters:
"A son is a son until he takes a wife. A daughter is a daughter for life."
2006-12-27 22:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by davester1970 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The situation is faced by every girl going to get married in India, or may be in South Asia. It is really a difficult proposition.
The girls have to leave the parents, relatives, friends, home etc. etc. for a new set of life, husband, people (called in laws) and live in a new multifaceted role of wife, sister-in-law and daughter-in-law.
It used to happen; it is still happenning and it shall continue to happen in future as well.
In any case, you will gradually overcome it. And it is just a physical separation. Your parents and other relatives shall always be there. And in this high tech age, physical distance is no distance.
So, do not be worried at all.
Best Wishes for your married life...
2006-12-27 22:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get confused/Be optimistic. Generally men folks do consider n are co oprative/positive thinking will help/ Only tell ur parents not to interfere with ur relation/They should not ask any questions once u r married. The things will go very smooth. I promise. Indians r very sensitive people n forget n forgive easily. Wish u best of luck/good married life/ Good wishes from ur unknown Brother.
2006-12-27 22:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by raashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a second life to a girl/boy i mean u will start a new life with the new Person, There is nothing to get confused , with love and affection of your partner u can keep yourself away from ur parents.
I saw so many married girls neither they are confused nor they are crying for their parents.
2006-12-27 22:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i understand the mix feelings to leave your family n go to a person n give 95% of attention to him,,,
but this mix feeling is a proud feeling for your parents who want their daughter to get a nice partner n they can b away from your tensions when u r getting the best..
think in that way that yr parents are blessing you all your life..through doing your VIDAII , after all Indian marriages constitution is based on sacrifice what makes it so special and unique..
2006-12-28 01:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get too merry or people will think you are drunk. Lol.
I have no answer to your question because it sounds as though you are talking about Eastern culture as opposed to Western.
Here it could go either way or you could even move into a house with your husband with no relatives within a hundred miles(kms)
2006-12-27 22:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by Ted T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Niki,
Just chill out...
Thatz the way you can start a independent life, where you can have your own family with lots of responsibilties and happiness...
Even guys are leaving there parents now a days... ha ha ha so you don't have be confused :-) Anyways HAPPY MARRIED LIFE and ALL THE BEST...
2006-12-27 22:16:21 · answer #7 · answered by Dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When marriage takes place, girls leave their parent's home. It is the custom which is being practicised from t ime immorial. Darling you should not be confused and should not be under stress. After marrige you will be with your husband and he will and you both will enjoy your marriage. Go to some hilly place for honeymoon. Enjoy sex and be with your husband and also obey his commands as he is your god on earth. you should become a most loyal friend.
2006-12-27 22:14:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I beleive that GOD has made the females very powerful than males in human kind. They can adjust in any situation and anywhere in any worst scanario. They can manage and handle the situation very well compared to men. Men can not get adjusted being Ghar Jamai even if they are very poor. After all, Women are Egoless and Men have thier Egos for nothing.....
2006-12-27 22:14:18 · answer #9 · answered by aramaiya 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am confused too. I have seen many movies where the bride cries and the groom thinks that he has done a big mistake.
I can't answer this but,
*** HAPPY MARRIED LIFE ***
2006-12-27 23:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by Nicks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋