This friend i have feelings for has a girlfriend. I have always kept my distance despite the fact that i have always had a cush on him. Awhile ago he started flirting with me, when it kept happening and getting more serious i told him i wanted it to stop because i have feelings for him and its really hard for me not to react back to it. We agreed it should stop but somehow it always starts happening again. I dont think he has any serious interest in me other than attraction and i know he wouldnt actually cheat on his girlfriend and i wouldnt do anything with him while he is with her. Im starting to get mad, he knows that i care about him and he uses it to string me along, he might be a immature flirt but he is not a bad person and he is not a real 'player', i dont understand why he keeps doing this when he know im getting hurt? Its not all his fault but im the one who keeps trying to fix this and im getting nowhere!
2006-12-27 21:57:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wanna fix it right now? Quit flirting with him and keep your distance. Tell him until he breaks it off with his girlfriend we must not carry on like this. Until he is freed up, go out and flirt with and date other guys. Don't waste time on someone else's guy or girl.
If you keep going back and playing his games, he will keep at it. It really is on you. He keeps stringing along because you keep getting hooked.
2006-12-27 22:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey some dogs don't care where they bury the bone just that it gets buried. If he really wanted you for more than a sex toy he would respect your desires to not grope you he does not care about you as a friend either or he would't be all over you. So the tip is RUN as fast as you can AWAY from him he won't miss you more than 5 seconds the length of time it takes for him to expel.
2006-12-28 06:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by Kdid49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see him, put on a straight face, and when he starts flirting, don't say anything. That should get the message across LOL good luck!
2006-12-28 06:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why insist on him?!
Listen, if you say that he is flirting with you while being with the other girl, and you eventually ask him to give her up just to be with you and he does it...imagine what he will do to you if you get to date him!!! He is an A$s hole and i think you should go over this pathetic freak! He's defiantely not worth it! C'm on!!Don't underestimate yr self! :)
2006-12-28 06:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by Soulla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres 2 ways 2 do it first kick his *** next time he does it with u and second is tell his gf this would def do tha job ;)
2006-12-28 06:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by nabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it clear to him that he has to choose between you and this other guy otherwise he can keeps his hands off of you. If he can't accept that, tell him to **** off
2006-12-28 06:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋