am a girl,a virgin of seventeen years and am having a boyfrnd schooling at the university of illorin.my problem is that i ntend to keep my virginity till my weding night bt my boyfrnd doesnt want that,he always disturb me to have sex with him bt i dont agree with him.so,later i discoverd he is dating another girl, and he loves that girl more than me bcos when i read the message on his phone,he has deleted all the message that i sent to him except three,but i read almost twenty mesage that girl sent to him,and another thing is that he used [kokolet 2]to save my name and he used[ kokolet 1]to save that girl name and he is even dating another girl apart from the two of us.so what should i do?should i break the relationship or continue with him.pls i need a good answers.
2006-12-27 21:57:25 · 18 answers · asked by omosexy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
break the relationship because he doesn't deserve you. if he really loved you he would be willing to wait until your wedding night. don't be pressured to give up something so important to a loser that doesn't want you.
2006-12-27 22:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. I know it's hard to see sense when you're involved in the situation BUT look at it this way;
dump him fact 1) Your boyfriend doesn't love you (or else he wouldn't have multiple partners)
dump him fact 2) Your boyfriend has been unfaithful - it's the ultimate betrayal.
dump him fact 3) Your boyfriend does not want nor respect the things that you want - he's never going to marry you before sex, if you stay with him, he's either gonna leave you eventually anyway or you'll end up giving up for the sake of him and you'll regret it for the rest of your life
dump him fact 4) This guy is an asshole - do you really wanna marry or loose your virginity to or hell! even KNOW a man that would play women like this?!
dump him fact 5) "kokolet 2"?? That's how much he loves you!! - you're just another notch in his bedpost! Do you WANT that?!
dump him fact 6) You KNOW you *should* break this relationship, you just don't want to,
this is a time to follow your head, not your heart, before your heart gets broken.
2006-12-28 06:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by tasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away from this guy. He's looking for an easy thing, a fun time. You sound like a serious girl with her head screwed on right and you don't need anyone to mess up your life plans.
A guy who cheats like this has NO respect for you.
It will hurt now, but TRUST me better NOW than later when it will hurt 100x more.
2006-12-28 06:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him...he has different points of view!Ofcourse...he's probably too young to understand that he must respect your decision...he's a 'sprinter'...which is probably normal for his age!
On the otherhand...you have the right to not want sex before marriage...but while you grow up...you may look at things differently...anyway, it's always up to you to decide the right moment and the right person for you!Smile!
2006-12-28 06:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by jokersmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you know the anwer to this one... But just incase, break up the relationship... If you suspect he's cheating leave him move on with your life..... you're only 17 get urself into a good college and find someone that treat you with respect...
2006-12-28 06:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by Rain L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You definately need to end it with him. You will find someone who respects your wishes about your virginity. He does not seem like the type to settle down and appreciate what comes from the heart. Best wishes.
2006-12-28 06:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Sunflower 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes break up with him. He can't respect the fact that you are saving your virginity for marriage. He is just looking for sex and has no respect for you.
2006-12-28 06:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GET RID OF HIM!!
Hes a loser, hes using you and he doesnt respect you.
If he did, he would respect that you want to wait.
arent you glad that you didnt sleep with him.
Move on and find someone who is genuine and wont treat you like crap
2006-12-28 05:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by DeeDee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to dump him I'm afraid. Anyone who doesn't respect you as an individual or respect your choices as a humanbeing does not deserve to be with you. And you deserve better than that.
2006-12-28 06:01:56 · answer #9 · answered by rampington 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELLO? of course u shud break this relationship! u dont wanna be in a relationship with a womanizer who wants nothing of u but sex. if he really cares for u he wont be dating other girls and he wont pressure u into having sex with him. i hate such guys, forget him!
2006-12-28 06:01:58 · answer #10 · answered by Ruby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋