if he said he does loves me, but he loves GOD more.... what can I do?
2006-12-27 21:39:25 · 18 answers · asked by plus size woman 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
- Ummmmm, Read 2-Corinthians - 6:14-18 in the Holy Bible in the New Testament. On this topic a Christian's mind set is set on the above reference. What can you do ? - meet his GOD in the scriptures, & ask Him if he's the right man for you, if you get conformation on it, have his God hook you & him up for Holy Matramony. When a man say's he loves GOD, what he's saying between the lines is - if I say I love you, I really do, I won't lie to you, nor, cheat on you, honest in every way posable, always seeking how he may please his wife, LifeLong, These are Commandments set by a Holy GOD who created Holy Matramony between a man & a woman.
- - - In closing, a husbund & wife should be complete in each other, One in ; love, commitment, charity, respect, home, bed, food, family & yes I'll say it, Expecally One in the eyes of GOD Allmighty, so know that the man & woman should be equil in every way possable for the healthiest relationship in & with each other in the eyes of GOD\ Jesus the Christ . . .
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2006-12-27 21:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mystro 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
That's the way real Christians are. We love God more than our families. You would too if you were Christian. We are only suppose to marry someone who believes as we do. There is a part in the Bible that tells us not to marry someone who is not a believer. I am not sure where, as I am too tired to look it up.
2006-12-27 22:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by Dakota Lynn Takes Gun 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you understand why God comes first, but God created humans to someday find their mate and marry. To prove how much you love your christian, then become a christian yourself! Hoping this question is from a woman!
2006-12-28 00:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're suppose to put God first. If you marry a Christian and you're not a Christian, and I'm not saying it won't work out for you, but it will make it that much harder on the marriage.
2006-12-27 21:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by tracy211968 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's possible and as a Christian you should love God more than your wife. But if he is such a strong Christian then it may be a problem for you in future if you don't agree with his beliefs. If you're happy for him to be Christian and support him as your husband and he doesn't mind that you are not Christian then you can make it work. Be honest with each other and make an effort for the sake of love.
2006-12-27 21:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by Velouria 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes they can, but the bible does warn of difficulties to follow if a believer becomes married with an unbeliever. Our ultimate priorities are to our love to God, our love to our spouse, and then our love to our children - this is the order that is biblical and also, believe it or not, promotes the greatest harmony in a marriage as well as a family.
2006-12-28 02:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by maguainc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course...anyone CAN marry anyone, but that doesn't mean that it's right! Christians are not SUPPOSED to marry non-Christians because the Bible says do not be unequally yoked together. But it does happen alot. Christians are supposed to love God more than anyone, anyway. It can lead to conflicts over values, child-rearing and lifestyles.
2006-12-27 21:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by Ra 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Marry only in the lord.-1 Cor 7:39 also see Deut 7:3,4 and Neh 13:26
A married couple who have the same faith are more likely 2 maintain their relationship than a couple with varying beliefs and differences.
2006-12-27 21:52:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jake 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes they can. Its a matter of if they want to. Some may have been brainwashed to think they cannot. But it can be done.
I know of a catholic and an atheist still happily married for 40yrs. They just agree to disagree. Kids aren't baptised until they figure out if they want to be apart of the religion or someone elses.
I also know of a catholic and a Jehova witness married for 6yrs happily. They agree to disagree and when the kids grow up they can choose which one they want if any. The kids aren't baptised until they make up their minds that they want to.
2006-12-27 23:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by Tania S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bible says if a couple are married, and one becomes saved, to stay married, but otherwise, not to "yoke yourselves unevenly"
He should love God more, and in reality, to follow the bible, he shouldn't marry you. Sorry.
2006-12-27 21:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by lost and found 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋