i scared of every body as there is inferiority complex in me how to get rid of this and develope confidence.?

Question

as i m interior designer, i want work on big scale but i couldnt found any. my all cousines are intelligent. happy with their work.i m confused. i practiced for 4 months under sum designer in nagpur.i cant go anywhere else.

Answer 1

Inferiority complex is a feeling that one is inferior to others in some way and is often subconscious and is thought to drive afflicted individuals to onvercompensate. This results either in spectacular achievement or extreme antisocial behaviour. A normal feeling of inferiority, can act as an incentive for achievement whilst an inferiority complex is an advanced is an advanced state of discouragement, often resulting in a retreat from difficulties.

Generally in India, people substitute the term "Inferiority Complex" for a normal feeling of inferiority. I believe from the two questions u had to your Q&A that what you go through right now may be (or even may not be and you might have assumed to be you are in due to your recent failures or grudging on your friends' success stories) you are in a normal state of feeling of inferiority.

To be more clear, the feelings of inferiority can be distinguished as primary and secondary. The primary inferiority is said to be rooted in the young child's original experience of weakness, helplessness and dependency. Like a less cared handicapped person possess. These primary inferiority can be intensified by comparisons to older siblings and adults. On the other hand, a secondary inferiority feeling relates to an adult's experience of being unable to reach an unconscious, fictional final goal of subjective security and success to compensate for the inferiority feelings. The erceived distance from that goal would lead to a negative (minus) feeling that could then prompt the recall of the original inferiority feeling. this composite of inferiority feellings could be experience as overwhelming. That the goal invented to relieve the original, primary feeling of inferiority actually causes the secondary feeling of inferiority. This vicious circle is common in neurotic lifestyles.

To conclude and summarise, you possess a comparitive outlook will setting your carrier ambitions and field of operations. Your aim in life should flair well in your choosen professions. You are presently stuck up in achieving your ambitions in a bus stop wherein you are idle and alone and while awaiting bus everybody tend to compare each one's personality with others awaiting and feel jealous of those who got into the bus from the previous bus stop. This feeling is quiet common and this is not called inferiority complex. Relax and set down your priorities. Everyhuman being passes this stage in life.

If possible, try to get out of Nagpur. As a non-maharashtrian settled in Nagpur, my analysis about Nagpurians, Vidabides, and Maharashtrians they rarely tend to come out of their circle. They lay a circle for themselves and curze the fate and grudge others. Please come out. You have potential, and you have success in your life. But nobody can help you in laying the road for success. You will have to identify the theory. It is just a Cat and Mouse puzzle to lay roads for success.

ALL THE BEST

Answer 2

I know what's your problem. I myself had suffered inferiority complex for three years. And now I'm cured. Because I've practiced some techniques.

Here are some tips on how you can get rid of your inferiority complex;



Begin by accepting your limitations. Analyze them, and understand that there are some limitations you can work on. If you want to be runner but are lame, there’s really nothing you can do about. Acceptance of any problem actually solves it.

Find your own value. Remember no one on this planet is dispensable. The only issue is ‘do you know what your function is?’ If you don’t, find it! It could be your family, your friends, the society, somebody surely needs you, work for them, work towards them.

Set realistic goals and work towards them. If you set unrealistic goals you will only meet failure. That will lead to frustration and further lowering of your self-esteem. Set reachable goals, this will give you a feeling of success and that will help you reach more difficult goals later. Learn to be active, do things that will help you reach your destination.

Last but not the least, love yourself. If you have done something good, reward yourself. Learn to take compliments and be positive. Remember, what you think of yourself will affect what you feel for others. So once you see value in yourself you will be able to see the importance of others in your life. They say charity begins at home. Likewise, love begins with yourself. Remember only you can do it!

Answer 3

Hey dude ! Dont take it so hard. Failure is the pillar of success.
Be confident.Meditate for 5 to 10 mins in the morning and evening.It is obvious that it will help you.Take advice from your cousins if you wish.If needed join yoga classes too.
Best of all the good luck !!!!

Answer 4

Why have you developed this inferiority complex. Analyse yourself and you will get the answer and way to go ahead

Answer 5

remember no one is perfect. there are many people more clever than you and more dumb than you . be yourself . tell yourself that you are the best. have confidence by trusting yourself.