Ok, im not a very good looking person. I know this, and accept it. Well theres this one girl in my class and she is really beautiful. Well my questions are, what are the chances a not very good looking guy can get a girl like that? I mean, i really like her and think shes beautiful and i dont know if she likes me like that. How can i tell if she does. Plus..shes one year older than me. What should i do?
2006-12-27 21:03:27 · 22 answers · asked by flaminblue09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friend, talking like that wont get you this girl. If you got beaten with a baseball bat would you just accept it and walk away? I would hope not. Do things to make yourself more attractive, every flaw is fixable with determination and girls love confidence so dont go to her feeling sorry for yourself its a turn off. But if your deadset on accepting that your unattractive then i suggest be extremely honest with her and her friends even if it means being mean, while for a little bit it may make them mad she will think that she can always trust your opinion because you wont embelesh to make her feel better and voila your a friend then you get to work the battlefield and try to avoid the friends zone and work your way into the romantic zone by being sweet, honest, and romantic. Good luck - but remember no girl is worth not being yourself so be honest.
2006-12-27 21:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about attraction, if she sends you signals, you stand as good a chance as anyone. to be honest, good looking girls often spend a lot of time wishing that some one would ask them out on a date, because most men assume they wouldn't be interested, and so never bother plucking up the curage to ask! I've met some 'mismatched' couples in the past, and that's only applying societies standards to that statement, as i believe any couple that get on well and find each other attractive are very well matched. i've found over the years that i have fallen for the most unlikely people, that maybe on first sight i might have dismissed, thanks to the stupid 'ideal' placed in my head by magazines and movies etc. I would never go out with a stunning guy, 1) because they are normally full of themselves (no offense but men generally have more self confidence than women, that in itself is attractive, but when it turns to arrogance, it's not big and it's not clever!). So have confidence when you go and talk to this girl! 2) good looking men, normally assume they can have the 'pick' of the bunch, and don't get involved, just flit from girl to girl, damaging each girls feelings on the way! i know i'm being very generalised here, but it's rare to find a guy with good looks and a great personality, normally a bloke will rely on one or the other, and it's rare to find a guy that's willing to work at developing themselves into a 'whole' being. so my suggestion... be yourself, be confident (BUT not arrogant!), ask her if she'd like to get a drink sometime, or go for a coffee and have a chat. BUT, if she says no, take that as the answer, don't hound her. If she says no, and you really like her, perhaps you can become a friend, and show off your dazzling personality, if a spark ignites, things can progress. It's all about chemistry! good luck!
2006-12-27 21:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look around you.. there are thousands of beautiful girls with average looking men. Women are attracted to other things in a man besides looks. However, young girls do have a thing for dumb good looking guys and it may take you leaving school before you have success. Girls grow up and are interested in men who have character, humour and intelligence. I am considered pretty good looking and I never have been with a good looking guy. I just don't find them attractive. Be the best bloke you can be without your looks and women will notice, trust me.
2006-12-27 21:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and you have as much chance as any other guy. A mature girl doesn't only look at someone's looks - you need to be clean, well-groomed, etc. You probably are downplaying your looks anyway, most guys do. Make sure, though, that the only reason you want to go out with her is NOT only because of how SHE looks - that would be ultimately shallow, dude.
2006-12-27 21:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me, a guy who isn't very good looking, and has quite a beautiful girlfriend. For someone to truly like another person, it's not because of looks, it's because of character. Get to know her, talk to her. If it turns out that you get along very well, maybe she does like you! Let her get to know you! Do things together sometimes, talk, have fun. Start out as friends, and if you feel that she may like you, then let her know how you feel. You never know, maybe she'll tell you first! Good luck!
2006-12-27 21:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by Enceladus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the chances in the world... Guess all beautiful gal look for security.
A good look guy also look for security with no so looking gal too.
2006-12-27 21:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by David Fhu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of path usual finding adult men have a guess with "warm" women. you do no longer ought to be arm candy in case you have a large character. And in case you ask a woman out and he or she rejects you given which you do no longer seem good adequate for her, then she replaced into too shallow to have been worth some time.
2016-10-06 02:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you've got pretty good chanses if you're a cool guy, I mean, if your personality is great, the looks aren't that important. And I'm sure you're not that bad looking:)
2006-12-27 21:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by eradicate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are pretty slim. First she is older than you... one strike against you. Second, if she is a typical girl, looks are very important to her.
2006-12-27 21:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by Nostalgic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have all the chances in the world if u r smart enough.
the chances that she is are slim as the more beautiful she is the less smart, so u don't even have to be so smart.
so the more beautiful she is the more ur chances are and the less smart u need to be.
we are all crazy I am...where are humans going.
2006-12-27 21:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋