This autumn I've fallen in love for the guy from abroad on-line very hard. For about a month he
told me he liked me very very much but then he has disappeared (well, I saw he has disappeared
only for me and to others he continued to do the same as before...) and stopped replying my
numberous e-mails and stopped going on msn at all. And this was for 2 monthes. Before that I
jogged every morning but then when he has cut any contacts I found out that I couldn't run any
more, it has become so hard and all the body hurted! I really couldn't run but only walked slowly.
So I quite jogging. And then I got really ill for 2 weeks lieing in bed and then one more time in
this period! Then once I've written such an e-mail to him which I thought would make him reply me!
It was written from the very hard. So when I've seen he has read it and hasn't replied again I've
become so bad that had even my periouds started in the middle of the cicle... So for a monthe I
didn't write him anything but on the Christmas I've written him a big and bright Christmas
wishagain from the whole heart. Ad the next day he has gone on the messenger... I've written him
Hi! and he has replied only in an hour telling he wasn't there, I don't believe this but no
matter. So we talked for an hour, he appologized for being bad to me in the end, told me he didn't
want to become closer as we are so far. So after that I feel I've become bad again! I wasn't
already so bad that last month, I've almost forgotten him! And now all the body hurts again! What
is it? It never happend about any other guys! I like a lot of guys, I can cry about them but never
my body hurts that much or I become ill! And even more he told me yesterday he's never been in
love while I know he had been in long relationships so this also feels very bad.
Tell me please what do you think of this and what can I do not to feel so bad?
Thank you very much,
Maria!
2006-12-27 21:01:28 · 13 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
divert Ur mind,go out with friends and meet some new people....try not to think too much about him..!although love is better in person not on-line!
2006-12-27 21:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by Deez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do for yourself is stop living in fantasy land and come back into the real world. You are not in love with a real person, you are in love with a make-believe guy that only exists in your overactive imagination. He was quite right to stop replying to your messages - he probably realized that you were going way overboard with this imaginary love story. Turn off your computer and live in the real world for a while - meet some real people, you'll be much happier.
2006-12-27 21:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the answer is not any, sex is an important element of a wedding ceremony. My spouse went (nonetheless having) the same situation after the youngsters were born. element of the precedence is hormones and diverse priorities on your existence. initiate courting back like you used to beforehand you've been married, boost your marriage. you want to have a actual courting with your husband or you'd be posting a question on right here in a three hundred and sixty 5 days or so asking 'Why do husbands cheat?'
2016-12-01 06:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maria,
Please stop falling so easily for a guy that you cry, especially one that you don't know. It sounds to me as if you wear your heart on your sleeve. Meaning you get your feelings hurt easily. You are going to have to toughen up or this is going to be a rough life for you. He doesn't want a relationship that is a distance relationship, they are the hardest to maintain. So get back to the running before you feel any worse, make yourself get out of bed. If you don't you will need to go see a psychologist for severe depression. Please get over what was never really there.
2006-12-27 21:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by girlcop1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You much remember this is a on-line thing. We can say whatever we want. Love is went you truly care for someone and respect that person.
I know someone who will LOVE you and never let you down. His name is JESUS. He will never forsake you.
Go jogging and ask Jesus, to send you the right guy into your life. What on God.
Bless You!
2006-12-27 21:20:02 · answer #5 · answered by GOD IS LOVE 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I didn't read the whole Sunday article.
but if u feel sick after love u could be pregnant.
2006-12-27 21:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
maria, por dios por santo, i know it hurts but u need to let go. he doesnt like u the way u like him.
2006-12-27 21:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by Lei 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is all in your mind! Maybe some counseling would benefit you.
2006-12-27 21:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by caralinar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you psycho? who falls in love online get a freakin life
2006-12-27 21:12:18 · answer #9 · answered by jingles 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I got sick from just readin' your question, of course love will make you barf.
2006-12-27 21:05:16 · answer #10 · answered by The Emo are taking over. 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋