I am going to divorce her but should I say its because of the finger or should I just claim irreconcilable differences? I want the kids too so what would be the best in those regards?
2006-12-27 20:58:23 · 27 answers · asked by larry f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing would be for you to get a life so you can actually have some hobbies other than making up such ridiculous and unbelievable scenarios.
2006-12-27 21:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a lousy excuse for a husband. You do not leave someone because they lost a finger in a boating accident are you crazy or something. What is really going on? You did not take you marriage vows very serious because as far as I know they say for better or worse right? No matter what you say with the way your mind works I do not see you getting your children. The kids need to be taught to love and care for your family unconditionally and I do not see you being able to do that. Maybe you should sit back and examine yourself and see what is wrong with you. Do not drag you children in to a messy divorce trying to take them from there loving mother which I am sure she is to put up with you. Good Luck to your wife and kids they are going to need it.
2006-12-28 05:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by Virginia B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW well no one can answer that but you . Is it really the finger or are you loooking for a way out perhaps another lady ??? have you told her how you feel ??? see what it would take to get her an artificial one or you can pray and go to church and if that does not suit you then go see a marrage conselor but be 100 %%% positive this is the right thing AND dont forget the kids teke it harder than you do/will good luck I will pray for you
2006-12-28 05:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by mom 2 a queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend's sister's husband is a truck driver. He lost both his legs up to the knees 3 years before in an accident. Now she loves him more than before and support the entire family with a small job that she has. Husband is at home with 3 kids, all schooling. This is called life and responsibility. And to add to all, she never misses a Sunday to go out to new places with children and her husband in a wheel chair. Husband is now on a work to write a book on the subject, Safe Driving and Family life.
Dont you feel ashamed for the question that you are asking????
2006-12-28 05:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is an absurd idea to divorce her on the ground of having lost a finger. U will make urself a laughing stock if u take plea for divorce.
2006-12-28 05:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your going to divorce your wife because she lost a finger and because of some 'irreconcilable differences'? ... let me tell u something ... my grandfather lost his left hand and leg in the factory where he used to work but my grandmother didn't abbandon him because she loved him, she loved him enough that she got a minimum wage job to be able to support my mother and aunt till he could find a job he could do ... therefore u should be ashamed, u blitz of a man ... maybe you should divorce your wife, i'm sure she deserves someone better than you u son of a bit.ch, your place isn't here, on this earth which God provided for us, it's rotting in hell, the devil's paradise ... get al ife u a.ss hole
2006-12-28 05:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok ..I have heard it all..How did she get her finger cut off? ..you said she was in a boating accident..why was she on the boat who instigated the boat trip..YOU??..and if you did.. DIVORCE!!!............ I think you are obligated to her..I cannot believe your story..
com'on..I think you have been doing some late night shopping at the local WALLY MARTINEZ (Walmart) and you must have someone in Layaway..I want to give a Shout Out ...this Tonto with the lame excuse of why I want to leave my wife..I hope you do leave her..so that someone else can appreciate her..becareful..she may become a millionaire..and then what??
2006-12-28 05:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by ck1_content 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to be kidding. Your divorcing her because she lost a finger. What kind of asshole are you? If this is a serious question, then tell her its because of the finger, if your going to be shallow then at least be honest and shallow. If this isn't a serious question, then its actually kind of funny.
2006-12-28 05:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by Cactus Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you take the advice of your respondents in this section. Then go see a lawyer. Do not miss out on the opportunity to have some counselling too.
My guess is you are going to take some serious stick because of your shallowness.
Good luck.
2006-12-28 05:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put yourself in her situation, if i were her i would think of divorcing you first because you bet on a real relationship because of a finger, think of what she has done for you and your kids with the left 9 finger and how she suffers
2006-12-28 05:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by Shereen N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋