Hi, I am 19 with the turn of the year. Lots of guys around me and of course I too like talking to guys. But now I feel now I need to seriously consider to have a boy for me.
I am more of home loving type and till date I have never dated and have no boy Friends. I need advice how to choose a boy for me? I know its a silly question, but still its my life. Please advice to what extent I can move with the boy till marriage? My friends have different openions and mostly suggest to live with the boy whom I choose. But I feel, I have to reserve anything above a simple hugging for after marriage. Please advice.
2006-12-27 20:37:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, it's hard to decide....
but here's a fact...
id you want a good b/f, you must also be a good g/f...
it's just how both of you handle your relationship in the future...
and in choosing a partner, you don't choose the good one...
you choose the one you love... no matter how cruel that guy is, when you love that guy, you accept whatever and whoever he is... :)
follow your heart...
2006-12-27 20:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by ajsavior 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ur in luck cause just not too long ago i was in the same position, although i am a boy i was looking for the same girl. i found that girl tho, ur going to laugh but i seriously met my girlfriend at wal-mart, it was around 12:30 at night and just so happend that she was there, it was love at first sight, this happend 3 weeks ago, ppl though that it wouldnt work but we are strong and now i live with her, we are perfect. ok ok i know i got off track cause u ask how to choose a boy, im not saying go to wal-mart and look for boys but i am saying if u see someone u know u think ur going to like give it a chance, a compelet strange u never know could be the one u were looking for ur whole life. i know im going to marrie my girlfriend we are both 19 and u may think we rushed but i know it was is and will always be the best thing that has ever happened to me. she is my other half and i love her to death. so go out find a guy, talk, enjoy urselfs and just live life cause remember u only have one chance to make it a great one:) good luck and hopefully u are as lucky as i was to met such a wonderful girl:)
2006-12-27 20:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by quikblue11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Neha, Marriage is just not having sex, a lot more than that, it is all about how two people understand each other inspite of all odds, how to be supportive to each other at all times of life, how to have faith in each other, unconditional love. You have to behave with your husband in the way, u want him to behave with u. U know he loves u, cares for u, and also u r the person not allowing him to come near u, then y were u in this relationship for this long? You will find happiness only from a person who loves u and not from the person whom u love, keep this in mind. Don't betray ur husband. U can go to a marriage counselor and speak out what u feel about ur marriage, u can have a frank talk with ur husband about ur expectations from him, etc. Don't take any decision which u will regret in future. All the best!
2016-03-13 22:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for someone who is a young man...boys only like toys. Don't give yourself, emotionally or otherwise, until you are ready. Dating is not marriage...and Mr Hyde will often show up after you marry. Your friends may have opinions but they don't have to live with the mistakes. Use you own judgment it has taken you this far.
2006-12-27 20:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally speaking, a good boyfriend for you is someone who makes you feel good about who you are, treats you well, respects you as a person and makes you crave more of himself (emotionally, mentally, physically). The only true way to find a good boyfriend is for you to date and put yourself out there. There is no way to determine a guy's true nature simply by looking at him or talking to him once.
Word of advice: if you're looking to save yourself when it comes to sex, don't go opening your legs for the first guy who says he loves you. Most 19-25 year old guys don't know what love is especially within the first 6 months of knowing you.
2006-12-27 20:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by apulidous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want choose a boy and serious of long term relation than ,1st thing he should respect elders and love the younger so its up to u test ........thats show his caring nature .
if u want to love a boy u must have some criateria so choose a boy who full fill most of them and some charecter which u dont like once u start loving some one(U/He) have to sacrifise their habbits.
in my opinion i dont know from where u r, but i do feel how u feel about love how much u mean to it , how much respect u have for it .i ll advice love is best thing that can ever happen to any bodies u may be wrong but learn best of it . best of luck
2006-12-27 20:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by statue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check his parents. See what kind of home he comes from or try to get him to talk about his homelife.
A good boyfriend vibes with you. Usually into the same things as you and makes it abundantly clear that he'd like to hang with you.
2006-12-27 20:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by L. F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can u jump from boyfriend to marraige. Get a grip on life Marraige is not always good!
2006-12-27 20:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm you can kiss the poor guy too. also you need to know what kind of guy you want. there are the reseverd type, the party type, the brainy, and so many more you need to know what you want out of life to know what kind of guy you want.
2006-12-27 20:42:29 · answer #9 · answered by loverly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose a guy who can accept and love who you are...
2006-12-27 21:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by vooxbox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋