My sister is 24 and has never kissed a guy, so obviously, she's never had sex, she looks down on people who smoke and drink, even just once in a while, and she is suuuuper uptight and judgemental. How can I get her to loosen up? Sincere answers only please...
2006-12-27 20:36:59 · 8 answers · asked by lapoetsmoderator 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My father in law is such an a$$hole.
Just one example - He was waltzing with me at my wedding, and whispered in my ear "I've just lost a son".
Nice huh?
2006-12-27 21:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by Fuzzy Wuzzy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with that? Are you in that type of people? Honestly, do you really know your sister? I mean, did she tell every detail of her life to you? How you want to loosen her up? By making her kiss a guy, get drunk and then have sex? Imagine the world without her! Everybody will think drinking and premarital sex is so damn cool!The world need her because there are too many people that think drinking and premarital sex are darn cool and fun! So what? she looks down on smokers that make the innocents get sick unwillingly and the drinkers that cause unwanted chaos in our life. People nowadays are so freaky. Hey dude, maybe you should think twice about what you ask. Nowadays world really needs an uptight and judge mental like your sister because there are too many free spirit people like you. I'm sorry but you want an honest answer.........
2006-12-28 05:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by hidayah tarmizi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh! yes, i know the type...very infuriating.
I'm not sure there is anything you can do to get her to snap into reality and see that no one is perfect and that people do make mistakes.And that people shouldn't always be judged souly on their actions.
That realization only comes with maturity.
But, don't be too hard on her,because i can bet that if she is that hard on other people...she is most likely 10X's harder on herself.
Just be there for her when she makes that first terrible mistake..she wont need anyone to chew her out...trust me...she will be giving herself one hellova beating already.
And if is you she is always judging.......maybe it is just out of love and concern:)
2006-12-28 05:40:52 · answer #3 · answered by Dream 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to get her to loosen up. Don't bother.
2006-12-28 04:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my brother. he is very judgemental and sooooooooooo very far from perfection. ignore her. life has to kick her in the @$$ and she has to make some mistakes 1st. then maybe she'll change
2006-12-28 04:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by ms_lique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant do anything about it ... it has to come from her, she has to want to loosen up
2006-12-28 05:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to take a chill pill and get laid.
2006-12-28 07:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i do.
2006-12-28 05:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋