2006-12-27 20:29:25 · 7 answers · asked by Lyla 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get over the person
you have a huge life ahead of you so take your time
ppl say that life is short but its the biggest thing that anyone ever has.
just take your time and go and pig out. it always lands a broken heart
2006-12-27 20:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER go for the rebound or jump to a new one. If you are just dating then i guess it is fine. However, if you are trying to find a person to settle down with then you have figure out what you have been doing wrong with the others. And learn to be honest with yourself about who you are and what you want. Once you can love and respect yourself you will have a much better time to move on completely with heart and soul. You will know when it has been long enough you will be really lonely. I was single for about 16 months before I decided to date again. Not because I really loved the guy before i was Just burned out on the whole dating thing.
2006-12-28 04:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by Feather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a secret to dating. You might think I am nuts but it works. I learned it after my divorce. I went to a sociologist and was told not to date anyone for a year. In that year it gave me time to heal and think about what I really wanted in someone. Now, it is wasn't really that serious I wouldn't recommend a year. You will know when your ready. Who says you have to date to find someone new? Hang out with friends.
2006-12-28 04:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by misstigeress 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you date someone not immediately but soon after a big breakup then it's not intentional but you're using someone to fill a gap that the last person had in your heart..... now not dating anyone after your breakup, I think isn't healthy because then you give yourself time alone and when you're alone people usually think stuff or come up with reasons that make them feel bad or insignificant..... in life i guess you gotta expect to get hurt and dont be afraid, but dont be gullible either just live life without fear..... better question is "why not?"
2006-12-28 04:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by just a kid wonderin' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went out for the first time today. I mean left the house, left my neighborhood after a break-up. I went out with a old friend. It was a mistake. A big mistake. I even told him before he came here that I hadn't healed and when he borught me home I thanked him and told him again I hadn't stopped caring for the guy. In some ways I wish I hadn't gone...
2006-12-28 04:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur the sociable type then i say go out and meet other people.. dating does not necessarily mean going into a relationship immediately...sometimes it's just two people hanging out and doing stuff they both like doing. it's refreshing and sometimes can even generate a few laughter on your part.. keep it light, keep it simple and most of all.. don't be needy and clinging.. be confident enough to be just urself
2006-12-28 04:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by msweets 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always take time out for your self jumping from one relationship to anouther is unhealthy.
2006-12-28 04:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋