My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over two wonderful years so I cant figure out why I'm so jelaous! I freak if he even asks to hang out with his friends. I basically get jealous any time he isnt with me, even if he's with his family. Now he's talking about joining a fraternity and that definetely didnt go over well with me. What do I do it's ruining our relationship!?
2006-12-27 20:26:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break up with him and just stay in love with yourself.
2006-12-27 20:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by Staci C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same position, only my bf has given me reason not to trust him. Is this the case with your bf? Does he check out other girls in front of you? Does he lie to you? Do you have reason to think he had cheated? Have you had this in previous relationships? If you have no real reason to be jealous, then I would say that possibly you feel like you arent good enough for him. Just remember that no matter what, no matter who he is with, there will always be a prettier girl just around the corner. He is with you because he cares about you. Its also possible that you just love him too much. You feel like you will have nothing if he leaves you so it causes you to be paranoid.
If you are jealous because he has given you reason, then you definately need to tell him why you are jealous so he can stop his behavior. Also, if you are jealous when he hang with his friends or family its because you want to be with him all the time and you think he should feel the same. You need to give him his space, and try to find things to do while he is otherwise occupied so you wont be wondering what he is doing all the time. I know its hard because I am the same way. Only I dont trust my guy because of his behavior.
2006-12-27 20:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself if you really want to be with him if you don't then you are currently doing everything in your power to make him leave you.
If you do want to be with him you need to stop this madness,
think about it imagine your boyfriend was like you, nagging you all the time, eventually you would crack up and just leave cause you wouldnt be able to take it anymore.
You need to sort yourself out your obviously a very insecure person, if you don't sort yourself i think you'll be saying goodbye to that poor boyfriend of yours
2006-12-27 20:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just try to trust him because the way it sounds to me you dont trust him so try to put that in order, dont worry its just you being a girl it happens to the best of us, but your right if this does continue it will ruin your relationship, so just try to trust him with his friends and dont break up with him, it wont do any good. well unless you have good reasoning, but for this matter its not worth a break up.
2006-12-27 20:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by crazyinlovewithyou5 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man and i am the same way I don't like my chick hangin with her friends. Its because you are afraid he might cheat on you cause his friends are a bad influances. Your probably right if he drinks and parties a lot of course he will cheat. Thats why I don't date woman who drink or hang out with *luts
2006-12-27 20:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to find a therapist because you're right, this will ruin your relationship.
2006-12-27 20:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u love him , so u have to trust him too , now if u always jealous there n here, better say goodbye to u my love
2006-12-27 20:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
deep down you don't feel like you are good enough for him. give him space and see that he comes back because he really wants to be with you.
2006-12-27 20:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by michael H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should join some activities so you can have fun with out him as well.
good luck
2006-12-27 20:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't sound very fun to be around. he'll probably dump you if you don't change your ways. he's with you now because he likes you. If he didn't then he wouldn't be with you. so stop worrying.
2006-12-27 20:28:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋