So this guy that I like is really giving me mixed signals..on one hand we spend an immense amount of time together. We're always planning to do different things together including travelling the world together, which we're starting next fall. He's told his friends he loves spending time with me and how much fun we have together yet he's never tried to kiss me or anything. Now in saying this we've talked about his past and according to him he is suprised when I tell him how attractive I find him because he's never been told that before. He says he's never had anyone say anything like that to him and that it comes as a total suprise. This is making me believe he's still a virgin and has never done anything with a girl before (as he doesn't believe in one night stands and as far as I know has never had a gf). Could this be why I'm feeling this immense attraction between us yet he's not acting on it becasue he's nervous and doesn't know how to go about it?
2006-12-27 20:18:16 · 4 answers · asked by twisted_cherry85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are probalby the one that actually looked at him deeper than anyone before
if he never tryed anything and you really feel the attraction between the 2 of you then make the first move
2006-12-27 20:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to tell you this but your friend is gay...c'mon "loves spending time with you" and yet no signs of affection...
tell him to come out...the pressure is probably killing him..go ahead be a good friend and help him come out
2006-12-28 04:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by ed j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is either as you said or he is gay and using you as a cover for his family and friends.
2006-12-28 04:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by guts_spunk_moxie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried asking him?
2006-12-28 04:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋