I understand that it takes something like 3-5 inches to find the pleasure zone. But what if a guy is under three? This is totally legit, I am not making this up. And please don't answer if you're just going to make fun of it.
2006-12-27 20:17:55 · 35 answers · asked by more_brains_than_brawn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all (and this is easier said than done), ignore the people giving you a hard time about it (no pun intended). Learn to be confident in spite of it, and then do learn something about oral sex. The most important thing you can do is clitoral stimulation with the tounge - drives some women INSANE. If it's really a problem for you, for your own self confidence, definitely speak with a medical professional. Be sure to assess the risks and compare them to the POSSIBLE rewards before having any operation, and consider a decision like this very very VERY carefully if you are seriously thinking about it.
All in all man, there are many ways to please a woman sexually (this is why they're so complex - so we have a CHOICE of how we choose to please them!) And if you doubt the oral sex thing, just look at how many women swoon when Gene Simmons does the tounge thing! That should be clue enough right there :)
Finally, if she's WORTH IT, in terms of a real relationship that goes beyond sex, she won't care how short you are, she'll love you anyway and you'll explore new ways of stimulating each other together. That's the mature, adult way to handle it anyway, and anyone else who refuses to admit that or help you with it is just a loser, so screw 'em. Best of luck!
2006-12-27 20:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the man is afraid that he cannot pleasure a woman with a penis smaller than three inches (I really can't say if he can or not), he should focus on learning different ways to pleasure a woman other than with his penis. I've known women that could care less what size the man's penis was, because he was really good doing other things.
2006-12-27 20:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by sonofwampa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most of the nerve endings in the vagina are in the first 2 inches, so you are fine. There is a operation that increase you slightly but not a lot it's really up to you to see if it's worth it. I would speak to a doctor about it. www.talksexwithsue.com has a lot of information to back up the whole nerve endings in the first two inches of the vagina. Being a good lover is about much more than size. Most girls don't orgasm through penetration statistically anyway.
2006-12-28 16:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
See a Dr. I can understand this is a personal issue, but a DR has seen it all before so it shouldnt be an issue. There are plenty of simple surgery and non surgery things that can be done to increase size.
Most of all though, sex is only a part of life and sexuality, the tounge can work wonders ;) and fingers etc.
Take care x
2006-12-27 20:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by feeltheeffect85 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're screaming to be made fun of for this question...but I'll give you an honest answer anyway. If I were sleeping with a man that was 3 inches or less, I would tell him to quickly vamp up his "toy" techniques and exercise that tongue a little more. save intercourse for YOUR pleasure, then finish her off with something new and unexpected. She'll remember you for it.
2006-12-27 20:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by Detroit Diva 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Relax.
Size does NOT matter; satisfaction DOES.
Learn the art of lovemaking and give her THAT experience. Chances are, as a more proficient lover, your partner will overlook your size and regard you as a gargantuan man.
But if size matters to YOU, then I would advise:
1) Consulting a physician about the matter. There are medical procedures available that may help your physical concerns, or
2) Purchase an artificial extension or other adult "toy" to enhance your performance.
Just remember that there are many "monster-sized" men out there who have no clue that women enjoy performance; not protrusions.
Good luck to you and thanks for posting!
2006-12-27 20:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by GMarieP 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely love it when guys go down on me and lick me really creatively. Its is very pleasurable, the feeling of a mouth, lips and tongue down there. It is far more pleasurable than sex.
My advice is to giver her a good and long session of oral - giver her 20 minutes and she'll be howling with pleasure. Then finger her.
There are many guys with bigger sticks who given women very little pleasure.
Good luck.
2006-12-27 20:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by Tatiana 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Size matters when it comes to proportions. You have to make sure the other person is proportionate to you.
Put like sizes with like.
If you're a Ford Fiesta, find someone who has a compact parking space. If you're a Suburban, find someone who is a parking structure.
If that's not possible and you like the person you're with, barring everything else, YOU BETTER LEARN/KNOW HOW TO MOVE IT.
AND I MEAN MOVE IT LIKE THE RENT'S DUE. (FELLAS)
2006-12-27 20:23:23 · answer #8 · answered by L. F 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that might be an issue. but i've heard from others that size doesn't have to be a problem. well you can make it up with better foreplay. and you can try to find a better position when you can maximize entry.
2006-12-27 20:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I highly suggest you start learning about oral sex if this is really the case. Wow..um...either that or you could tie a weight to a string and attach it to your lil friend there and try to work him out...
2006-12-27 20:21:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋