2006-12-27 20:15:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would have to say no. He is not responsible if he's 31 and is still living at home and being supported by his parents. Also, how can he buy pot if unemployed? If parents give him money to "live on" and he spends it on pot then again, he's not responsible. You are already taking care of someone who needs you very much. This guy just doesn't have his head together enough to be with you and your child. You both deserve better.
2006-12-27 20:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by kdsabala 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had to ask myself would i trust my child with a man that smoked pot and still lives with his mother and doesn't even have the responsibility to hold a job. No. why well one what kind of influence would that be on the child. Two if he got messed up on his drugs would he try to mess with my child in a inappropriate way? Three how can i have any trust in a man that still lives at home with his mother and doesn't have enough respect for her to get a job and help with the bills. So now i would really think about that question dear and ask it one more time. That child should be the most important thing in life and if the single mom doesn't teach that child that a persons first responsibility is to ones self then all other lessons will go out the door.
2006-12-27 20:31:19 · answer #2 · answered by Feather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 19:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately not. The guy is a loser. If he has no job and no money to get his own place, how is he buying pot??? This guy is going to drag you down and take your kids with him. Think about the example that he's setting for your children. You need to dump the dope(him) before he costs you your kids.
2006-12-27 20:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sue B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the way you describe the man, it seems to me like the answer is obvious. Do you want that kind of person influencing your children? If the answer is "no!" (and I would hope that it is) then drop the lazy so-and-so immediately!
2006-12-27 20:20:54 · answer #5 · answered by Blondonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? No. Definitely not! What kind of influence is he for your child or children? Would you be all right if you kid grew up just like him? I hope to God not, from what you've said.
2006-12-27 20:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a no brainer.
NOOOOOOOOOOOOO
You have a responsibility to your child/children. Do not expose them to this cr@p.
Kick him to the curb and find someone worthy of your love and respect and that of your children.
2006-12-27 21:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by Fuzzy Wuzzy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if she was dropped on her head at birth and lost all common sense.
2006-12-27 23:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your child(ren) should not be in an environment like that!! If nothing else get out for them!!!
2006-12-27 23:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by agentqt44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself "Can I see myself marrying this man?" That usually does the trick.
2006-12-27 20:19:33 · answer #10 · answered by sonofwampa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋