my crush invited me for a date, actually i really like him since the time I saw him, and i plan to give myself to him whenever he ask of it.
2006-12-27 20:13:14 · 14 answers · asked by mickey12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO!! BECAUSE AT THAT POINT YOU ARE BEING TESTED! As to whether you are girlfriend material or a one-night stand. Women who are girlfriend material make him wait as long as feasibly possible.
Just treat him as a friend until you get more info on him. Even if you have a crush, you have to hold your ground until you find out if he REALLY wants to be with you BEYOND THE FIRST DATE.
Men say over and over again, the girl who gives it up on the first date is disposable and never gets a return phone call.
HOLD OUT UNTIL YOU KNOW MORE.
2006-12-27 20:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by L. F 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That depends on a few things.. Like how long you've know him. Were you friends before? How old you are... Will it be your first time? etc etc. (you've probably heard them before)
I gave myself to my husband on our first date. We were together for 9 and a bit years before we got married, and we have now been married for nearly 9 months. We'll have been together for 10 years this comming Feb. I met him 3 years before we got together, and I knew him as a friend for about a year of that (where we spent time together as friends and not just aquaintances). I was 19 when I got together with him and had been with a few people before then. = this is an example that it can work out.
However...
Once I saw this guy and got a crush on him. I decided I wanted to sleep with him. I watched him for a while and tried to get close to him. He asked me out on a date and I said yes. I gave myself to him that first date, and it didn't last very long. He seemed to lose respect for me very quickly. I was 18 and he was the 3rd person I slept with. He made me feel like ****.
Do what your heart says. Make sure you use protection (as everyone says and everyone is sick of hearing, but must be said) and be prepared for heart ache... In either case it can work out or go down the tubes. There's no guarentee it will work out if you wait, and there's no guarentee it won't if you don't wait.
oh and there's the risk you'll get yourself a bad name - especially if you are young.
2006-12-27 20:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by annyka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 19:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carol, Carol, Carol.
I'm almost 40 years old and I have never even kissed on the first date....or the second one either....on the third a kiss is acceptable.....The sex thing should wait for about a couple of months.
2006-12-27 20:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No...noit even if you think it feels right and you feel good with him...don't do this. Don't cheapen yourself. You are a prize to be won. Don't give what you have as a gift to the guy. They quickly learn that you aren't what they want or need and they move on. You never hear from them again. I know most people don't learn from other people's experiences...but please pay attention to mine this time.
2006-12-27 20:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just might think of you as loose, let him chase it.It's fun when guys chase it and even more explosive and great when you actually give it to him because he has been wanting it. After he chases you for some time (not too long of a time, just reasonable time since you like him), he will F**K the hell out of you and you will love it.so wait, it's worth it.
2006-12-27 20:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i gave myself to my husband on the 1st date, i actually made the 1st move. I just could not help myself because he looked so sexy. we have been together 6 years and married 4 years. I made sure i gave him great sex. So if this is your 1st time to have sex,i say do not do it on your 1st night but if you have had sex before make sure you please him well if you want a relationship, otherwise don't do it cause he might call you a whore.
2006-12-27 20:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by Life is FUn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it will make u look like a slut
u dont wana look like that
if u act hard u will live him wanting more and u will se him a gein give ur self in or after the 3 date
2006-12-27 20:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by shopilinda 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you let him have yout pu55y on the first date he'll think you are easy and the relationship will be one that a primarily sexual, based on getting off with each other.
2006-12-27 20:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by Tatiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if you are over 16 and you dont have a probally with it, cause he might not stay with you. Good Times
2006-12-27 20:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋