we both felt quiet lonely and we ended up in bed - that was two years ago. now and then we have sex but it's lukewarm at most. basically we ar just two people coming together out of loneliness. however our friendship suffered the most. we used to hang out a lot, now we barely call each other. we go out as a group but never with each other anymore. i miss the friendship the most. we both recognze the fact that we don't really love each other but it's hard to be just friends again the way we used to be.. is it possible to salvage the friendship or is this one mistake where the consequence is too high to pay?
2006-12-27 20:11:23 · 10 answers · asked by msweets 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it happend once i would say YES, but it has happened every now and then and you guys don't love each other. Your friendship is gone and lost.The only left of it is booty call.
2006-12-27 20:15:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there.
We had our problems in the beginning but later on we managed to go over them...We decided that we will get together whenever we needed some company in bed but we still were best friends. We achieved that by agreeing on pretending that nothing happened everytime we did it! And it worked.We both liked it and we were having fun!We were going out as a group and on our own and there was absolutely no problem.Later, he found a girlfriend and he told me about her before he slept with her,i was ok with it and then later we managed to still be best friends!!!! It is very easy to do, only if both of you guys agree on such situation!Good luck!
2006-12-27 20:21:13 · answer #2 · answered by Soulla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your friendship can still be salvaged you just need to start over find something in common with the two of you then you might start to become friends with each other
2006-12-27 20:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by devin c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey ,
common !!! dont regret so much..
may be it was a mistake or a need... but it happened
You enjoyed or not ...but it happened..
So sit with your friend and talk to him and clear that , is this going to happen again???? if you guys dont wish it ,,just be friends and treat each other in the same way as before..
Unless you guys sit and clear these things from your mind ,,it will keep you disturbing...
cheers
2006-12-27 20:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by Bally San 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be the harbinger of bad news, but once you sleep with a guy your chances of going back to be being just a friend are virtually nil...he will always want more even if he is not really that into you. He has already marked his territory (you) and now that is has been two years before you have tried to put a stop to it, most likely it will just torture him to continue any relationship with you.
2006-12-27 20:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friends have fun together. Trust + enjoy each other with or without sex
2006-12-27 20:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i plead to differ. From the way ur saying it, it seems more like both of you treasure the friendship so much... both of you are in denial of ur affections for each other. Think about it...
2006-12-27 20:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by Chips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang girl!! Why the heck did you sleep with your best friend anyways!! Your stupid, your friendship will never ever be the same.
2006-12-27 20:17:38 · answer #8 · answered by Bordering Suicide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi..... i dont think that the frequency and rapport u share before will come again...so its better to settle down things and move ahead in life......
enjoyyyyyyyyyy
tc
2006-12-27 20:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by vikas n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep sleeping together.. worked for me
2006-12-27 20:17:35 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋