i've been in love with the same guy for nearly a year..sadly he's been dating someone else for just as long. and even sader still...we kissed a few times...meaning he cheated with me. and god, believe me i know he's an asshole (because he really is) but it's just that he's witty, smart, funny, and artistic..he understands me and we've always had this weird magnetic attraction.
i tried to win him over.. and he told me he liked me...but being with me would be more difficult... what an *** right? he has no problem leading me on while he has a gf and he dates based upon convinence. so now, why can't that be enough to convince me to hate him.. why do i miss him even now? why do i still love him? and finally...how do i move on (i've tried hook ups..but that isn't my style)..help!?
2006-12-27 20:02:55 · 5 answers · asked by luckmess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't get over it...no matter how much he has hurt you! You just have to be as strong as you can be and realize that you deserve to be treated MUCH better than he is capable of treating ANYONE!. Keep telling yourself that you do not want to live the rest of your life with his betrayal and deceipt...some days will be tough, others will be easier, but you never get over that unrequitted love. I fell in love with a man that sounds as though they could be twin brothers! Who knows why we fall for such scumbags....just be true to yourself! Good luck!! You/re in for quite a ride!
2006-12-27 20:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by lydlykarug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me in high school. The guy I liked just kept stringing me along, kissing me when his girlfriend's back was turned. I loved him SO much, even though he was an ***. I decided it just wasn't meant to be, and I went out with someone else. I got married, had kids, and thought he was out of my system. Not long after leaving my husband I ran into this guy. It had been years since I'd seen him, but the attraction was still there...we've been together for a year now, and just moved in together. Good things come to those who wait, and if it's meant to be, it will be. It's just not your time with him.
2006-12-28 04:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by Amy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT R HOOK'UPS? Is that what theyr called now ha,ha,ha! I don't know what 2 tell u Dear .SOME people experience real connections they hold on to.Don't hang on to him.Ultimately it's his choice if he's gonna b a man horror!!!!
2006-12-28 04:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time and D I S T A N C E. Avoid him as much as you possibly can.
2006-12-28 04:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are a child, wanting what you can't have. Grow up, move on, find another guy.
2006-12-28 11:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by bestbet77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋