me again = 18 yrsold male,
well ive never had a relationship but Ive wanted one for a while now, im about to finish high school and ive suprisingly known a girl for about 2 years who is AMAZING ive never met anyone like her!!! shes got some friends though, they have social circles, really weird ones, they think like golddiggers and only value looks and physical attraction, ecxept her, but you know what they say, you are who you hang around, and its pretty confusing, and hard to take, since a guy like me who you can say wants to fess up, is afraid of what will happen after i do, its crazy though we went to go se cirque du soleil, not sure as a date or friends but the show was AMAZING and still after everything, im playfull, outgoing and im confident and i know what i want, but should i let something like her friends get in the way, her friends and me think completely diffrent on terms of what we think a relationship is, what should i do???
any advice, once again would be great.
2006-12-27 19:25:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO
If she hangs with these people and is still not acting like them, you don't have to worry about her, sounds like she's already got herself down.
We all have friends that are not just like us, don't you?
2006-12-27 19:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitly remove her friends from the picture. If you say you know this chick like you do, her friends shouldn't matter. Just MAN up and step to the chick and tell her how you feel. You will regret it if you don't . If you guys do get together, don't bring the problems that you have with her friends up, you and her won't last. Wait until your relationship with her is well establish. One more thing, don't be so anxious about getting into a relationship. You gotta be cool.
2006-12-27 19:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by se7enshooter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think the issue here should be what her friends think of a relationship with you, but instead what she thinks of having a relationship with you. If you want to confess, you shouldn't let the opinions of her friends affect you. The only opinion that matters is HERS. And if the negative opinions of her friends are the things convincing her not to get into a relationship with you, then she isn't worth it and isn't ready to get into a steady relationship.
But you should definitely ask her out.
2006-12-27 19:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it somewhat is a gaggle of bullshit, Your boyfriend should not be hangin along with his previous romance female chum There are a bangin i could wager, If I have been him, i could be bangin, in no way doubt your instinct. do not believe the hormones as quickly as somebody has tasted of yet somebody else. stressful to say no to it, as quickly as youve had somebody , however the intercourse would possibly not have been any good, or nicely suited, yet I heavily doubt it replaced into undesirable in the event that they're spending time jointly, You flow get your appropriate boy chum and notice how your boyfriend feels approximately it, And unload your boyfriend as quickly as you may. Sorry purely attempting to keep you some heartache later down the line.
2016-12-11 17:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by sherburne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about her friends, if she can think for herself than she will make a decision based on what she wants to do. Good luck!
2006-12-27 19:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never worry about what your friends think , worry instead about what her friends think, they can influence her, guys only let their friends influence them so much, women are much worse at allowing outside influence...
2006-12-27 19:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you dating her friends or the girl.
2006-12-27 19:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋