hes 6 years older than me (im 23), we have very few things in common, he is a libra and i am a capricorn. ive been in a relationship with him for over a year and things are going smoothly. the only thing i can complain of is that we dont have much to talk about as he is not very conversational, and as ive said there are a few things that we like doing together...its highly possible that we'll get married someday. i just want to know if such circumstances is a problem or not.
Thanks!
2006-12-27 19:07:36 · 10 answers · asked by rinkumi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes and no, it's a problem now, cuz you need to delevope similar things that you 2 like to do, sex can only be 1, find more, it just means you need more time b4 you jump into that forever bind of marriage, your ages dont matter, just a number, start off slow with lil things, and move into larger things, start off with a small hobby, do puzzles coloring, yes i said it, a lot of friends of mine color with there wives/husbands, its a thing you can do, share and help eachother with, as well as sit down, and share a good conversation with....not havin much in common just means you have to work harder at it, and you know the saying if its to easy, it's not worth it
2006-12-27 19:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by dragonminies 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Having common ground is good. If you are happy in your relationship and the only difference between him and you is only that, I do not think is a major problem. You and him need to put an extra effort to do what the other likes. i e. he likes football you don't, you try and watch a match with him. You are talkative and he is not, he needs to try and be more talkative. This is all about living together, put aside the "I" and think as "us".
2006-12-27 19:30:49 · answer #2 · answered by maran 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This situation will become worse if you married to him. Tell him how you feel and worry, then wait for his real answers. Then you can tell. Your question is not the problem but the problem is he should join your interesting activities and you do too. Then both of you have more conversations. If so, this guy should be what you want. If not, you have to re-consider your relationship deeply.
2006-12-27 19:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by clare8899 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hi it alwayz depend on how u deal with it , u can make it good 4ur relationship or make it bad it all up 2how u htink about it like when he don't say anything u can just laydown next 2him and do somthing then he will talk trust me he will u need 2give chances 4talk , u guys should make it just normal and live this not think about it like it some kind of project or somthing , if u need any he or if u think i helped u plz wright me dat on mz_taha@yahoo.com
2006-12-27 20:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by mohame 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
doesn't have to be a bad thing. only similar grounds me and my boy has... we went to the same school... and we're both in the military... that's it! yup. from then on, everything goes their separate ways, but i still love him to death. :) umm... as for the talking problem, i really don't talk much either. not really used to going out meeting new people, talking and things like that. it took me quite a while for me to finally open up to him. we eventually got to the point where it wasn't a one way conversation w/ me saying "yes" "no". lol.
2006-12-27 19:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by LuvingMBLAQ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Explore eachothers interests and find some things you are both equaly interested in. Find new things you may both like. Or suck it up and each of you learn to like some of the things the other likes.
2006-12-27 19:10:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are thinking about it now, means it could be a problem down the road. Even with the best sex, if your bored,(not interested) not good.
2006-12-27 19:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, it helps to have some common ground to work from. Kinda hard to spend time together if you want to spend it in different ways.
2006-12-27 19:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe, maybe not!n
2006-12-27 19:15:32 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it could be
2006-12-27 19:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋