i dont know how to tell him with out it moving to fast but i dont want to miss my chance.. what should i do?
2006-12-27 19:00:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't make the mistake I did. I was in the same boat you are in now except that I was married. I met a guy a few months after the divorce that I should have married but didn't because I thought it was too soon & that I would be making a mistake. The timing was off. At any other time I would have married him & to this day regret that I didn't. We would have had a good marriage; we loved each other.
2006-12-27 19:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by Judith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, just be there for him right now.The last thing you want is to be the rebound girl.
If your there and very apparent in his life and he knows he can confide in you without feeling like there is confusion or pressure, He will show you all the right signs that its time to show you want more.
And if other chicks try to move onto your territory, Just pull them aside and let them know he had a hard break up recently and isn't in any position to be needing anyone new.
By doing this you wont offend anyone and also wont look like a jealous love sick women and still remain the one ready for the transition.
2006-12-27 19:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just tell him what you've told us, that you'd like to maybe hang out with him, but you've just got out of a relationship a few months ago, and are still healing
See what he says/does
If he can't go at your speed, than he's not right for you anyway... Whoever you spend time with needs to respect who you are, and what you're going through in your life... Otherwise they're not really dating you
Good Luck
2006-12-27 19:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by Corandero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful YOU still haven`t healed completely. Its possible to have a deep love very easily blinding you from the realities of life going on around you.
2006-12-27 19:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time with him and if it feels wierd just ask him to take it slow. You'll do fine just remember that you can control the pace and if he doesn't respect that he can take a hike.
2006-12-27 19:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not do it, it is a sign of a rebound it happens all the time walk away and hopefully you run in to him a year or two from now
2006-12-27 19:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by MSG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flat out tell him you like him. Also FLAT OUT TELL HIM that you want to take things slow.
2006-12-27 19:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by rockangel80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him u like him. tell him if he's intrested that u want to take things slowly. good luck and happy holidays.
2006-12-27 19:11:10 · answer #8 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋