just curious cuz i have a friend that thinks her ex that cheated on her after they went out for a yr might have changed...so she may be willing to go back to him now that he wants her back
2006-12-27 18:45:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, reform is too difficult for more serial cheaters.
2006-12-27 18:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by Buttercup - VP Bamma Fan Club 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't always true. Not for everyone. I am one of the exceptions. I cheated on my b/f, now husband, years ago. Stupid thing to do. I even told him about it. We worked through it. I never did it again and never will either. Once was enough. Some people can see it for what it is. A mistake. But if the person did it over and over, I would have to say no mistake, and probably will cheat on him again.
2006-12-28 02:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by misstigeress 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the person and the relationship.
About a year ago I was "dating" a guy friend of mine, but our relationship was pretty much based around sex. Without any real emotional attachments, both of us slept with other partners, and eventually decided to keep things on the "friends with benefits" page.
Well, six months ago I met a guy who is very very much against cheating, and although our relationship started as sex, we eventually went steady. Just because I know he would never cheat on me, even though he certainly has a lot of temptation, almost instantly my policy on cheating changed.
So, just based on that, I think it depends on the person- is the ex going to stay faithful because your friend will? I think given a good reason, any cheater will stop, but in his world is your friend reason enough?
2006-12-28 02:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Ai-chan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very sad to say, yes. Especially since she gave him another chance, he will think she will take him back again.
I normally say that everyone should get another chance, but I cheated once and never again. I still say yes because even though i never cheated again, I still get the urge. I am a very strong person so I am ok at holding back, but it's still an overwhelming power. I wouldn't trust myself. Plus All the guys i know who have ever cheated, girls too, they always do it again in the future.
2006-12-28 02:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by rockangel80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hasn't changed trust me I know from experince once a guy/girl cheats they'll do it again. Tell your friend to forget about the guy if she doesnt want to end up heart broken. I was in that position once and I took him back got me no where but sitting at home crying wondering why? lol Tell her to find a guy who will respect her enough not to cheat on her.
2006-12-28 02:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by cute_chica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, SOME people change, grow up or wise up. Before she decides, she needs to find out the REAL reason he cheated in the first place. If he has overcome those issues or behavior than she should consider it. If she does take him back, make him earn her trust and love. If she simply goes back, he won't respect her. However, don't make it to difficult. Men are like lions. We love to hunt and conquer, but we conserve our energy and emotions to fight the fights we can win or the ones we need to fright.
2006-12-28 02:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by ugcj10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the same woman, probably yes.
In regard, no. There needs to be something about the cheetee for one to cheat in the first place.
2006-12-28 02:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by John 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once they get away with it the first time, it just keeps getting easier and easier. So yes, once a cheater......ALWAYS a cheater!
2006-12-28 02:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by redy2screm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes see us men never lost that million old gene that makes us want to breed . We can even love somebody alot and the right female walks by and boom it's a cave man walking
2006-12-28 02:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by Robert S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Course he wants her back - she is willing to overlook the fact that he cheated on her in the past and is further willing to give him another opportunity to treat her like dirt again.
2006-12-28 02:47:42 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋