I no this sounds weird but my parents never gave me " The Talk"?

Question

I don't know how to have sex please help me! I'm way 2 old not to know.

i dont wanna hear that it will b all fine at the time cuz ill b way 2 embarassed if i slip up on something...just tell me how no additional description needed!

Answer 1

For specifics, you have access to the internet so I'm sure you know where everthing goes.
My parents never gave me the talk either but we live in the 21st century, it's not like it isn't everywhere we turn. If you are asking how to get someone to have sex with you, or the before/after kinda stuff, I say you just ask the person you are with to talk you through it. This is a personal experience, something that should be specially shared.

Answer 2

Please, My curiosity got the best of me, and I learned more from online magazines and specialty sites for teens (for example: Scarlet Teen, just google or Yahoo Search the term sexual advice) than I ever could learn from my parents. But in your case, I would ask your parents, because they might know something more than other parents. Believe me, I am almost 30 and I never heard a peep about sex unless it was, "Were you watching porn on the computer?!"

Answer 3

first off, "the talk", does not include an instructional video. Sex is natural. You'll know what to do when the time comes. It's going to be awkward, and not very good. But so is every ones first time.

Answer 4

Surely no one told you how to kiss a guy? Its the same thing, you find out "how to" and what you like as you go along. If you have a boyfriend and you know that he has had a few encounters, tell him. A lot of guys find it a huge comfort that their girlfriends haven't been around the block. I told my boyfriend that he was my first and he made it the most memorable nite of my life.
Just remember to have fun and relax!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

Uh, how old are you?
You must be at least in 5th grade.
Isn't that when they give you sex ed?
Or did they completely cut that out of schools now?
Ok - I'll give you my parents' version of it:
You don't go out alone with boys no matter how old they are; because all they are looking for is to park their car in your garage. Once you've been parked. It's all over for you my Dear... nobody wants to park their car in a used garage.
Lol!

Answer 6

I'm 22 and my parents never discussed it with me either. Everything I know about sex was learned from friends, media and biology text books. I'm not complaining about it one bit, 'cos it would have been awkward for me to talk about sex with my parents. My way suited me! LOL.

Answer 7

mine never gave me the talk either .. actually i grew up in a single parent family so . my mom never gave me the talk .. but who cares .. i still manage to figure out how to do it .. practice makes perfect ... its usually the guy who knoes wat to do newayz .. everything will juz come to u naturally at the moment .. ya there mite b a few embarassing slip ups and stuff . .but like i said .. after a few times .. ull get the hang of it .. u dun realli need a talk .. even tho they explain it to u . u never knoe until ur actually doin it .. it applies to everything ... good luck =]

Answer 8

very few parents do .... mine sure didn't ...

research 'sex education' on the internet. You are a girl .. you don't need to know anything .. the guy does all the work. -- till you get more experienced that is.

Answer 9

My mom didnt either, but its just natural to not know, when the right time comes common sense will take place.

Answer 10

In "The Talk" they wouldn't tell you HOW to have sex... all they would do is tell you about safe sex and what sex can result in... A BABY!! = )
Talk to them if you're concerned.