Guys, would you go out with a slightly overweight girl?

Question

if she has a good personality and really cares about you

Answer 1

There is much more to a girl then a dress size, lol. Anyone who thinks otherwise is not even interested in a real girl, they just want a trophy for their wall. Just my opinion, take it or leave it.

Answer 2

How much is slightly? Good, clear pictures would be preferable, although a complete set of measurements will suffice. Anyway . . . yes, I would if indeed she was slightly overweight. But if she was truly heavy, I would have to think about it hard. It's difficult for me to give an upper limit, because women do not tell their weights. It's really difficult to say. Find the medically accepted limit for good health, and add ten pounds to that. That is probably about the highest weight I would be willing to accept. Or you could do it by BMI too. If your BMI is very close to the normal range, then that would be OK.

If you are really slightly overweight and have the qualities you claim to have, and I got along with you, I would certainly be glad to go out with you. But slightly is a key word. I only stress it because some women think 200 lbs is "slightly" overweight. Good night!

Answer 3

Please do yourself some justice and don't judge yourself or your friend because of being "slightly overweight". What if you were to lose some weight, would you leave the guy for someone better? The ball is in YOUR court by being the best you can be, so maybe losing some pounds is a good thing, just don't judge yourself for it, or worse yet, let some guy judge it.

btw, I am not a size 2 and I am jealous of models, movie stars, etc, but being yourself is more important than how you look because most of guys have beer bellys or rude habits toward women. Pick the one that most suits your needs.

Answer 4

To tell you the truth, i love a women who is not so fragile at intimate moments..no worries with breaking bones when i am in the mood to be a freak. I also prefer a slightly overweight girl because they are so cuddly and soft. Especially at night in bed. You are right about the personality. I prefer inner beauty over outward beauty cause inner beauty is what last. skinny girls are just for show and a good time. Most have funky personalities because they act like they know they can get anybody but one day later in life when those wrinkles start to show they will get a bold awakening.

Answer 5

It really depends on what type of person she is not just her looks. If she is slightly overweight and has a great attitude toward life who cares. I hate to say this but I'm stereotyping most skinny girls are really big pains in the rear end.

Answer 6

I may not be a guy but i am a slightly overweight girl. I have a wonderfull loving boyfriend that likes his curvy lady very much. A guy is not worth your time if he's only into the toothpicks & wont date you because you have some meat on your bones. A loving caring girlfriend deserves a loving caring boyfriend.

Answer 7

Why ask if they would go out with an overweight girl? Weight shouldn't matter but unfortunately it does however if you second guess yourself by asking if someone would go out with an overweight girl it becomes a turnoff to guys and it makes you think that a guys opinion of you is the only opinion that you think of yourself. Confidence is a turn on, no matter how much you weigh. :) There is more to girls than weight and if a guy only looks a weight then they aren't worth dating anyway.

Answer 8

Probably.

Although, 'good personality' is a relative term. I have a distinct interest in certain types of personalities. So generally I would not care about the slightly overweight, but I would be interested in how well rounded she is elsewhere.

Answer 9

YES!

I'd rather slightly overweight to one really skinny or worse - anorexic.

And caring and personality are a good touch.

Answer 10

yes I would slightly overweight girls need to be loved just as much as thin girls